I am strong bcz I am alone.

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Our birth begins with laughter, joy, and excitement. But as time passes, we become more and more crushed by the harsh reality. We understand difficult reality when we face it. Reality is something that stares you in the face, pointing out your weaknesses and mistakes, a situation that you have to deal with alone. This reality will never give you any concessions or opportunities, only that you will have to pay the price for your mistakes and weaknesses.

Why do we isolate ourselve?

We isolate ourselves when everyone in the world misunderstands and unnecessarily places responsibility on our heads. At that time, we started to feel annoyed and disgusted with ourselve. I constantly feel empty and worthless. Then there is no other option but to isolate or Roll up. This is a type of problem that if you can't get out of it quickly, you will sink into long-term mental problems. Sometimes people cannot bear this and choose suicide. I have seen several people who have lost their way in the face of reality and ended their lives.

I have been in danger many times in my life and have tried to isolate myself from everyone. I still remember once I failed a math exam, everyone started humiliating me. Even my mother scolded me a lot, I couldn't explain to anyone what happened to me in that exam. I sat in prayer to God, humiliated by everyone, and tried to keep myself away from everyone for a few days. But on the day of that math exam, I came down with a high fever and couldn't write anything well. Even though my mother knew about it, she kept scolding me for failing the exam. A few days later, I became so proficient in numbers that I scored the highest marks in the SSC exam.

When I became a father to a son, my son became very ill, and even the doctors gave up hope of saving him. At that time, a huge amount of money was needed for his treatment, and even my close relatives started moving away from me. At that time, I was very broken and isolated myself from everyone. I just kept praying to God and looking for money. After a while, God showed me the right path and I was able to somehow raise some money, completely without the help of my relatives. By God's will, my child gradually recovered and I felt relieved holding him in my arms.

I am a middle class person and I am completely alone with no one to support me financially.Sometimes I face dangers and get into embarrassing situations when I really want to isolate myself from everyone. I am alone and this loneliness is my greatest strength. To be honest, I can transform it into strength. Another thing I've noticed from my life experience is that isolating yourself from everyone is not a crime. If you can isolate yourself from everyone and transform it into strength and discover the right way out of problems, then you are the only successful person. So let's transform loneliness into our strength.

I am Shopnil Hasan, From Bangladesh. I am Mechanical Engineer. I work with machines as a profession and blogging is my passion. My hobbies are gardening and traveling to new places. I am nature lover. Love and Simplicity is my power ☘️