EMOTIONS AND CONVICTIONS.

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Although it's true that the young woman or man made you go through anguish, have you taken the time to figure out the genuine reason for the breakup?

Why don't you take some time to think back on the relationships that have failed in the past rather than constantly accusing others?

But listen, no matter how badly a relationship ends, the two parties are to blame and not just one. Don't get me wrong; I know you are the one wearing the shoes and experiencing the PAIN.

You've fallen for the trap if you blame your ex entirely for the breakdown of your relationship.

Yes, it is a trap that has prevented many singles from getting married.

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They continue to blame Mr. A and other people for doing this or that.

While I don't disagree that your ex-partner had flaws, may we concentrate on you both rather than just one?

I need your attention right now, so let's get started.

You both put EMOTIONS ahead of CONVICTIONS.

When emotions rather than convictions serve as the basis for a partnership, it will always end in divorce.

Due to the fact that emotions don't persist, divorce is inevitable even if they both get married.

Convictions remain unchanged unless you become distracted and compromise them. Emotions can change tomorrow.

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Nelson Mandela was driven by conviction, which led him to stand up and give his life to free his people.

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Martin Luther King Jr. was driven by the same belief as he repeatedly told Americans, "I have a dream."

A relationship can't survive on feelings alone, of course.

Yes, there will be emotions involved, but your convictions will drive you to continue working on that relationship even when it is difficult.

Every relationship will experience difficult moments, but your convictions—not just your emotions—can help you get through them.

Anyone who claims, "I'm no longer interested in this relationship," did so for the reasons listed below;

1. He or she was never truly convinced that you existed.

2. The individual has given up on conviction and is now preoccupied with feelings for someone else.

Both spouses must maintain their conviction in the face of interruptions.

I'm not saying that simply because you believe in someone, your relationship won't end in divorce; you must be thoughtful and international to uphold your convictions.

One technique to achieve this is by controlling your emotions so that you can say yes to another Lady or gentleman.

Something like this is really rare today.

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There are more REASONS WHY a relationship ends in breakup, but after reading this, I think you see why yours never does.

Where corrections are required, start making them.

I remain your favourite writer, Blackdovy.