What are my dislikes?

Things we dislike can vary depending on our experience and perspective, what I dislike might be different from what the next person dislikes that's why a songwriter said "Another man's food is another man's poison". Sometimes what I dislike also depends on my mood at the moment but I'm gonna share the three things I dislike without putting my mood into consideration. I'm about to drop the list:

The first list on my list is pretense I dislike people who pretend, I feel like it isn't gonna cost a dime if people show their true selves to others, back then in school, I knew someone who lived in pretense if there was anything like that, her whole life was fake. She started school with this luxurious lifestyle that made a lot of girls hang around her (don't ask me if I was among them) she would tell the girls how she'd travel to different countries for vacation with her family, that whenever she was sick she'd travel to the federal capital to see her family's doctor, omo we were fed with a lot of stories, so after the first-semester break was over and everyone had resumed, guess who hasn't resumed " our celebrity".

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At that point, everyone was curious, On the other hand, I thought she had gone on another family vacation, then one faithful day her besties came to class all angry and saying all sorts of things about our celebrity, at first I thought it was coming from a place of jealousy when they said our celebrity was living a fake life, everything about her was fake, that her parents weren't even rich. I don't understand why people pretend to be what they are not, that simply means they aren't proud of their background, and also they aren't proud of their family cause to me pretending means throwing everything you have away and embracing things you are not, I've realized that people will genuinely love you in your original state.

Another thing I dislike is Comparison I hate it when people tend to compare others, I mean everyone is different, what makes us different is our way of life, what people don't understand is the fact that everyone can't do things the same way. Comparison isn't healthy, it makes people feel less of themselves like they aren't important or worthy, and whatever isn't healthy makes people do the unimaginable (if you know what I mean).

This last one is inevitable, I wish it could be removed permanently from humanity, you wanna guess what it is? I'm gonna tell you what it is "falling sick" I hate this with my whole heart, I hate the fact that it makes us feel uncomfortable, I hate the fact that it consumes our finances often when it comes, I hate the fact that it can lead to losing the most precious people in our lives, I wish we can live healthily and never fall sick. Last week I was down healthwise, I know what I went through, something I feared the most was in front of me, I couldn't do anything but face my fears cause I wanted to get better.

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