'The touch of my hand' - Week 209
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I truly cannot comprehend why, given that it is widely believed that everyone will partake in it at some point in their life, masturbation is still surrounded by taboos and secrecy, even though it is a normal human behavior.
Some people see it as a time of self-exploration and enjoyment, a means to delve into their sexuality in a secure and private setting. For some people, it may involve feeling uneasy and unsure due to underlying issues related to their self-connection.
Honestly speaking, in my situation, it's something that doesn't happen often. This is not because I lack desire or curiosity, but because I am uncomfortable with myself.
Nevertheless, I don't criticize those who find it more convenient.
It's amusing because I grew up in a highly liberated atmosphere, where there were no taboos and everything was open. However, as I matured, I discovered that this sense of unease was not limited to just myself.
A lot of individuals, particularly women, find it difficult to embrace their sexuality. The media and popular culture frequently set impractical and unreachable norms for beauty and behavior, leading to a disconnect between our true selves and the unrealistic ideals we strive to meet. In the confines of the bedroom, these uncertainties are intensified, transforming the activity from a enjoyable retreat to a clash with personal weaknesses. I feel that way.
The unease arises from the desire to be at ease with oneself, a goal that can be challenging to attain.
The act of self-pleasure is an individual decision - quite self-explanatory, isn't it? For certain individuals, it is a daily routine of enjoyment and personal growth. For people like myself, it remains a challenge that has yet to be conquered.
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Nicely written and well presented, things I've come to expect from you I guess. Thanks for taking on what others see as a difficult or embarrassing topic, you've done well.
It was nice to write about something I'm not used to! Thank you for suggesting this topic as well!
Well written. I admire your courage to write about this topic, and you never fail to amaze people with your brilliant mind. Have a great day!
Thank u so much!! Have a great day to u too!!
Inner secrets few reveal each make decisions along the way for some it comes easy, others not so much to even talk of oneself. Nicely done in sharing on a topic most venture to even consider writing about.
Thank you!! At first, I was a bit shy to talk about it, but then I realized it was important and made the decision. After all, we shouldn't treat these everyday topics as taboos. We should strive for everything to be normal to talk about.
Would help young generation to realize being confused is normal, accepting how we think/treat has become obscure.
This is so very true! The simple truth is that, despite all the improvements we have made in society toward equality, it's still very much a man's world, with "norm's" and "beauty" still very much dictated by what men have said they should be over the course of human history. Hopefully we can keep making more positive changes toward equality!
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