CryptoMigrant

我覺得文章一開始提到的兩種極端很真實。 第一種是只會一直「教導」，卻沒有關心對方、了解對方的處境。有些人會直接拿經文責備別人，好像只要把答案丟出去就夠了，但其實沒有真正理解對方的痛苦。這樣的方式，很容易讓人覺得被定罪，而不是被幫助。 第二種極端則是完全不給方向，只是不斷問問題，認為 counselee…

閱讀這一章關於「荊棘」的內容後，我發現自己其實很容易像書中描述的 thornbush 一樣，在壓力和痛苦中用錯誤的方式回應。 很多時候，我會以為自己的問題只是因為環境不好、別人傷害我，或者事情不順利。但這一章提醒我，真正需要注意的不只是外面的 “heat”，而是我裡面的回應。因為同樣的困難，有人會更加依靠神，有人卻會變得苦毒、生氣、逃避，甚至傷害別人…

讀完這篇文章後，我最大的感受是：真正的改變不是靠人的意志力，而是神慢慢改變人的心。 以前我常覺得，如果一個人經歷很多傷害，他變得冷漠、生氣、沒有耐心，好像很正常。但這篇文章讓我看到，即使人在最痛苦的時候，神仍然可以讓人的生命長出好的果子。…

Modern secular psychology often suggests the counselor should never give answers, only ask questions. Why is this "discovery-only" method insufficient for a believer struggling…

(Reflection on the last two paragraphs) In biblical counseling, having compassion and understanding the counselee is necessary. However, a counselor must avoid allowing personal…

Why does Wayne Mack argue that data collection must always precede interpretation? Data collection comes first because you cannot give the right biblical solution if you do not…

One thing about biblical that stood out in me is its goal: the goal is not just to gather data and information about the counselee's situation, but to analyze that information…

In biblical counseling, no matter how much we desire a "good and favorable" result to the counselee, we should not give them false hope. I am amazed at how Wayne Mack addressed…

This is also a good method. When there is high volume in the market, we can still make a profit by doing it this way, but risk is…

Smooth Fibonacci entry, love how that 0.0686 snag caught it just shy of…