Stories of three strong Ladies of Hive

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As Hiveans we read different posts every day on Hive, we laugh, we cry, we cringe and all sorts of emotions run through us whenever we click on any author’s post to read. While there are so many interesting posts on Hive there are some posts that we find very difficult to forget as they will forever be in our hearts, Those kind of posts are not easy to come by.

Do you just read a post and something inside of you is stirred up? more like the author was talking to you or the words in the post create a vivid picture and you begin to see and feel everything the author felt and you can’t help but wonder how people get past painful experiences, how do people heal? how do their lives get back to normal? Having so many of these questions in your head you are forced to feel a certain way.

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The moment I saw this challenge I knew the three memorable posts to share with you all.
These posts will forever be in my heart, these posts will forever leave a mark in my life, they will be a constant reminder of how strong and amazing women are and that they are way stronger than we can ever imagine or give them credit for.

The stories I am about to share are really sad, at first I contemplated if this post would be opening old wounds but on second thought I just thought to still put it out there. My sincere apologies to the authors of the posts if this makes you feel a certain way and also for the tags.

My first memorable post is @grindan’s Remembering my Daughter on her Birthday. This was one of the first posts I read when I newly joined Hive. While I was exploring the Hive Memorial Forest community I found this post.

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This is a very sad birth story written by Grindan, I remember how I cried when I read it, I had so much to say to her via the comment section but I was worried it would open old wounds just the way I felt while coming up with this post.

The more I read the more I felt so sad for a young girl, how could someone go through all that pain to bring another life into this world just to lose her in the end? Grindan was so descriptive with her words that you could literally watch all the scenes in your head.

I think part of what made me feel this way was losing my mother during childbirth, so in my head, I was watching all the struggles my mother went through as I was still a baby when the sad incident occurred, but unlike Grindan's story, my kid brother is still alive.

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Her story was enough for her to be tokophobic but she wasn't as she went on another journey to bring another life into this world and this time it was different. Grindan if you're reading this just so you know you are one strong woman and an inspiration for all mothers who have lost their babies.

My second memorable post is Share My World: Sweet Sacred Experience by @sjarvie5. All thanks to the three-post challenge that was held in this community I was able to stumble on this post by Sjarvie.

I have never seen anyone describe the death process as she did. It was sad to see how her mother passed away. Sjarvie walked us through the whole process and to think she had written this post a week after her mother's death shows how much of a strong woman she is.

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I got to learn a lot from her story. I commend her bravery in penning down those words and this post is one of those lengthy posts that you just don't wanna stop reading as with every line you read you get curious about what happens next.

She talked so much about crossing the veil into the next and for the very first time in my life I did look at death differently, not that I want to die or anything but I did love how she and her family stayed by her mother’s side all through the process and how they handled everything.

The last on my list is A Mother’s Worry by @funshee. I am one of those Hiveans who love to read people’s personal stories more than anything else and for some reason, I enjoy reading women’s birth stories as I am able to take a peek into the lives of babies and their mummies.

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Funshee shared her experience after the birth of her son. Three days after giving birth to her son they discovered he had severe Jaundice which the hospital she had her baby gave a wrong report about. In this post, we get to see how a first-time mum was worried sick for her baby’s life. After having a major surgery Funshee didn’t have enough time to rest as she was on and about trying to make sure her baby was fine.

I get down with a little fever and I know how tired and miserable I get but seeing this young mum after surgery trying all means to make her baby fine again was heartwarming. Reading her story I got to see the unconditional love of a mother and it was truly beautiful. This is one post that I won’t forget in a hurry.

The common factor among my three favorite posts is that these women were able to share such poignant stories with us on Hive, they didn’t shy away from it neither did they hold back, to me that’s bravery at its peak. I am happy I came across them, even though it’s been ages since I read them.

All images are mine.

Thanks for stopping by
Loads of Love🥰🥰
XOXO

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Aww, thanks so much for sharing your thoughts about my post and the others. I am looking forward to reading them!

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Thank you so much for putting your post out there for us to read, it was worth everything😃

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Oh goodness, thank you so so so much... I cannot express how much it means to me that you remember Adele's story after all this time. I wish I could give you the biggest hug right now, you have made me cry, but in the most happy way. All I ever hoped when I wrote that post was that I could share what a beautiful and strong girl she was...

I'm a bit lost for words, I want to say more about your connection to the struggles of other women... How amazing it is that you chose to be present, even though it can hurt... How touching it is that you also honor your mother by sitting with other women, highlighting our common strengths and struggles with compassion.

I can only image that your mother is extremely proud of you, and your beautiful heart. Thank you for taking the time to be so open, I am grateful for your friendship 🤗💕

!LADY

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Ohh dear I am so glad that you are okay with me sharing your birth story.

All I ever hoped when I wrote that post was that I could share what a beautiful and strong girl she was...

Yes, my Lady you did that perfectly well, Adele was a warrior and wherever she is I know for a fact that she is doing well.

I can only imagine that your mother is extremely proud of you, and your beautiful heart. Thank you for taking the time to be so open,

To be honest, after penning this down I felt light and after reading all the beautiful comments on this post I became really happy.

Thank you for sharing your story with us again dearest Grindan😃

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Oh, my God, dear! I just know you have a heart of gold from the very moment I crossed part with you on this wonderful blockchain.

Thank you for still remembering the story A Mother's Worry and more than that for honoring me by sharing it here again with others.
And the way you talk about the three of us just made my eyes teary In a good way and left me speechless for a while.

We are all more than blessed to have such a wonderful safe place where we can share our story, raw, and in truth, and have people coming to support us without any form of judgment because that is how we heal.
!LUV I can never love you less Ibb, and I know your wonderful mom will be so proud of you looking down and smiling at you always.

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Yes dearest Funshee I still remember every bit of that post.

Oh, my God, dear! I just know you have a heart of gold from the very moment I crossed part with you on this wonderful blockchain.

You also do Funshee and I am glad we crossed path too😃

Hive will forever be a safe space for us all, a place where we can be vulnerable and not be judged.

Thank you for sharing your story with us as it was a source of inspiration to me😃

I Love you too Funshee🤗🤗

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IB !hug !luv
You had me trailing through all their posts and getting all emotional 🥹 lovely heartfelt share dear.💕✨

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Darling Whitney thank you so much🥰🥰

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Oh my gosh that story from @grindan is heart breaking.. thank you for sharing this though. I will leave a comment there too.

Did your own mother die during childbirth as well? Did I understand this correctly?

I'm sorry to read that :(

Thanks for sharing some other people's content you found worth reading!

!LADY

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Yes her story it’s really heartbreaking.

Did your own mother die during childbirth as well? Did I understand this correctly?

Yes she did🙂

Thank you for taking the time to read and for your beautiful comment my !Lady❤️

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Oh dear, I'm so sorry that you lost your mother at such a young age.. that must have been very very hard and traumatizing..

Thank you for sharing such a personal story !LADY !LUV

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Thank you for sharing three beautiful albeit difficult stories. I appreciate them for writing it for the help it can give so many people, and appreciate curators like you who share it.

Such essays are the true core of a site like this where we can all know that we are not alone in this world whatever be our experience.

Cheers from a fellow #dreemerforlife

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Such essays are the true core of a site like this where we can all know that we are not alone in this world whatever be our experience.

Yes Brij that’s the spirit!! We are never alone😃

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