Reviving the Spirit of Big Families: A Call for Connection

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Although there are many things in our life that we want to change everything is not in our control you can say that everything does not go according to us, we have to compromise on many things and this is life. Tell me, you must have seen in movies or dramas how everything turns out to be right in the end, this does not happen in real life. We have to compromise and this is the truth. Nowadays, many problems have arisen if we look around us. And the biggest reason I think is that love is decreasing among people. Yes, everyone claims to love each other to show off, but the reality is something else.


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Even though we are surprised to see big houses and consider ourselves very small, a successful family exists only in a small hut. In a big house, there are only troubles, mostly I have seen the same. Earlier the time was different, earlier you used to see that people had very big joint families, but everyone wanted a nuclear family, which means only husband-wife and their children, they do not want anyone else's company, they consider everyone else as a burden. And this is the only thing that I want to bring back because earlier big families used to be very happy, there were grandparents, grandchildren, uncles, brothers and sisters, there used to be a very long family but in total there are only four people in the family and some places only three.

It is very sad to see how people are no longer able to bear their expenses. Our age is also increasing but still what kind of love is there? Now you are not able to bear the expenses of those hands who nurtured you in your childhood. How are your relationships with those people with whom you spent your childhood, your brothers and sisters? Earlier, there used to be very big families, everyone used to live together and there was a lot of fun in the family, nowadays everyone needs their separate room, which was not possible earlier, everyone used to live in one big room. Yes, privacy is important these days, but nowadays we are giving too much space in the name of privacy and such a situation, many things slip away.


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In earlier times, people used to sit and talk among themselves in the evening, but now it does not happen. Nowadays, just see wherever you see people glued to their phones or any basic devices and that is their only world. It is very sad to see this. I am not saying that I don't do this, but still, I try to do as little work as possible. I want to bring it back to this point, yes, it will not be an easy thing because nowadays people leave their cities because of their jobs but if they want, they can also bring their parents with them, what will happen is that they will get a chance to live with my parents and secondly, if they are married and have children, then their children will also get the love of their grandparents or a lot of work has been done these days.

What do you think about this, do you like a joint family or prefer a nuclear family? Yes, everything has its advantages and disadvantages. For many people, leaving the house becomes a compulsion, but still some people, even after leaving the house, maintain less of a relationship with their family members and some maintain only a verbal relationship. And nowadays it has become a very common thing here, earlier when people had less money then everyone used to cooperate but now after the arrival of money everyone has become arrogant in a way and they feel that as long as other people If it doesn't matter to me then I shouldn't talk to him and much more. In a way, I can say that the world has become selfish, for the sake of selfishness even a donkey is ready to become a father, but in reality, no one loves those who should love them and this is what is causing weakness in the relationships.

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The longing and appreciation for the times when people shared not only a roof but also their daily lives are palpable in your words. The critique of the growing dependence on electronic devices and the loss of traditional family conversations is a pertinent reflection on how technology affects our personal interactions. Your words resonate as a call for the rediscovery of familial bonds, so crucial and often underestimated. Thank you for sharing this rich and emotive perspective.

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Bhattji, I completely agree with you. You have shown the reality in a very beautiful way. This is true, this is the reality of today's society. Earlier people used to live in the same family, elders used to guide the younger ones. Now in a family of three, who should teach whom? Bhattji, what is it, nowadays all the members have become smart. There is no one who is ignorant. So who should listen to whom? Nowadays humility is missing. So this has to happen. It was very nice that you highlighted a good topic. Thank you.

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Love indeed disappearing in the human relationship. Everyone is lost in his own realms. Bro I have been living in the joint family earlier in my childhood and it really hurts when I see those relationship after years who earlier live beneath one roof.

Actually the time has changed now people have less Patience that weaken the human relationship.

Indeed everything has a certain advantages and disadvantages yet I go for nuclear family and would love live in a joint family with my brothers in future after our marriage as I have seen my father and uncles living in one home in my earlier childhood.

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The harsh reality is because of technological developments, it created impact on interaction between humans even in interaction between humans even between family members. And naturally the unity became shaky and easily broken by silly matters.
We can't stop using technology but we can try to spend some quality time in the dinner or lunch time when all family members unite. I would love to bring back the big family also.

!PIZZA

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Thank you for such an emotional piece that is poised to triggering true love in our hearts and for our family union.
I need to have this post in my archive, so I'll reblog it

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The increase in nuclear families especially in cities is definitely against the culture of Joint Family in Indian Culture. However in rural areas we can still find big Joint Families to cherish for. !PIZZA

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Everything is changing with time. Big families are slowly getting divided into small families, it's really a sad thing. Growing loneliness. Those who have joint family are very lucky indeed. If the whole family is with it, many beautiful days can be spent. I sincerely wish that everyone is well with their families and the relationships are stronger.

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