Navigating New Territories: How to Gain Confidence Outside Your Comfort Zone

We all consider ourselves very attractive and confident in our field or I should say in our comfort zone, but when we need to go out of our comfort zone or I should say when we come out of our comfort zone, we have to face a lot of problems. Yes, many people have the habit of doing all these things since childhood and they become addicted to all these things. By doing this, they get a lot of benefits when they grow up. We must have seen around us that since childhood, many children are very fond of participating in debates and other extracurricular activities, but some children remain out from all these things, but to tell the truth, we all should participate in such things. Before doing this, we have to win that competition, it does not matter. By doing this, a different confidence builds in us and we get rid of the hesitation of doing it in front of people and this is very important.

Well, the personality of many people is so good that as soon as they enter anywhere, people get attracted to them and everyone wants to talk to them. Not everyone's personality is like this. Many people have normal personalities but are very good at other things too, but unless someone talks to them or goes to them, no one can know much about them, but the personalities of some people are so good that people get attracted to them and even without wanting to, they want to talk to them and want to become their friend. Yes there are many such people around us too who influence us or we get influenced by their words and such people influence a lot of people and some people also take the wrong advantage of this thing, we must have seen around us how people take people on the wrong path by influencing them and just use them as long as they can or I should say they stay with them as long as they need them and when their need is over, they leave them.

Well, there must have been a time in our lives when we had to meet some people whose personalities impressed us more than we did. We are not troubled every time by the fact that a person with a good personality and all-around qualities is bound to have some or the other shortcomings. If he is perfect, he will become God. I have had many such experiences, I would like to share one of them with you. This is about the time when I had completed my master's degree. This was in 2018 when I went to Delhi, which is about 12 hours from here, all my relatives already live there, but I went to my uncle and aunt's place because I am more attached to them and they also have children, I enjoy it a lot. I like that city to roam around but I might not have liked it for living as I have liked my city since my childhood and I am used to living in the mountains, so maybe that is why I don't like going to cities that much. I don't like crowded areas much, I like peaceful places more.

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Yes, what happened was that when I was wandering here and there for a job, I met many people and I got a chance to interact with many people. In the initial days, my confidence was a little low but as I kept going to different places, I started gaining a little confidence and this was also good for me. Yes, my personality was not that attractive. Earlier, I used to be very thin and now I have become fat and now I am trying to become slim again or I should say I am trying to build a muscular body. Yes, it is a little difficult to do this but I hope that I will be able to do it. So when I was going to give Fatima's interview, I got a chance to interact with many new people and I also got to learn a lot. To be honest, most of the interviews were useless because such things would keep coming up and the business was going on, but my last interview was after which I got the job, which I did only for two months.

When I met my boss for the first time, I was very nervous, as it happens with all of us until we meet a person personally, we are a little curious about what the person will think of us, etc. Many things go on in the mind, if you lack confidence or I should say you are a little nervous about things, then you develop a lot of doubts, and the same was there in me too, when I met him for the first time, neither did he know how I am, nor did he tell me how he is, and neither did we know about each other's skills. To tell the truth, his personality was very attractive, his height was around 6 ft. and he was very strong and muscular, the person who was with him also had a very attractive personality, whereas I was just the opposite of him, thin and with no personality at all, so I had become very nervous, I don't know what my first impression was, when we were addressing the office there were not many people, there were only three of us and probably a fourth class man who used to arrange tea and their things at night.

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After sitting for a while, he asked me to code something in HTML. I was giving interviews at many places in those days, so I remembered some things and was trying to remember some things. He opened a website and asked me to copy it. Yes, it took me some time because I did not know that he would start making me do such work as soon as he went there. It took me some time, but I made a copy of the set and gave it to him. When he returned after some time and saw my skills, he seemed a little happy. I felt the same, but I had taken too much time according to him and I had gone through a long process to make that page. But he told me that it does not matter, you will learn everything gradually. I was happy with this, but I was sad that he had probably put too much expectations from me. Then I performed very well in a few weeks and he was also very happy with my work. Yes, even though I was a little nervous on the first day, or I should say I was feeling a little uncomfortable and had a lot of doubts. As time passed, he started to notice my skills and I was realizing the importance of 'mere talent hai' (I have talent). Then maybe we become half of each other and it does not matter to us how he looks better than us or how smarter he is than us, we just get used to living with the people around us and the only thing that matters is how we behave and live with each other.

So overall when I left the job, there was no specific reason, I just did not like working there, I don't know why, maybe I was not in the habit of getting up at night, maybe this was a big reason and I was also very far from my home and I learnt that even if we meet someone for the first time, it is not necessary that the first meeting is perfect, your first impression is the last, we have heard this many times but it doesn't need to happen every time, some people have attractive personality but some people are not so attractive, but if everyone starts looking the same or everyone's personality is the same, then maybe it will not be a good thing, everyone is skilled in different things and we should feel good for that thing and not keep thinking about those shortcomings in which we are not good.

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