A week after my mother-in-law's passing
Hello Aseanhivers!
We have a full moon tonight. Just snapped these photos a while ago before I went inside our house to write this blog, past 11 pm.
We visited the cemetery today, never missed a day since my mother-in-law's burial last Friday, February the 16th.
Witnessed a glorious sunset today too while we were at the cemetery.
I always get my beautiful sunsets right here in the cemetery. Since its a vast garden with open fields. You can really experience different beautiful sunsets depending on the weather.
We stayed there up til 7pm. Saw the moon and took this snap. It wasn't that cloudy yet compared to now.
Anyways, just want to share my latest post about the pain I am experiencing now and my other previous posts, a eulogy for my mother-in-law.
You may want to check them out too.
https://peakd.com/ladiesofhive/@aideleijoie/remembering-nanay-tess-navigating-the-pain-of-loss
https://peakd.com/hive-188409/@aideleijoie/in-loving-memory-of-nanay-tess
All I can say is that, if all mother-in-law's were like her there won't be any quarrels between families. For she is really an epitome of love and peace. Such a great person.
While we were at the cemetery today this dog just came to us out of nowhere. He seems so happy and probably the spirit of my mother-in-law whispered to him, telling him to keep us company and to make us happy for she loves dogs so much.
A few days ago the workers who did the digging of her grave did some fixing on her final resting place. Since there were still mounds of dirt, Mark the digger removed some of the dirt first while placing a hose to loosen the soil adding more to compact the dirt so the Bermuda grass could be placed back again.
Mark's very loyal four-legged friend was with him while doing his job, never left his side. Even brought a friend with him.
For those who are grieving like our dear friend @diosarich, the loss of a family member, a friend. I am sending you my prayers of healing, comfort and peace. No words can really describe the pain. The agony of loosing someone we love and hold dear. It's not easy but I know in time we will come to terms and accept that our life here on earth is but a journey. We will all die, it's just a matter of who goes first.
So while we are still alive, let's live meaningful, purposeful lives. Let us all be beacons of peace and love to all the people around us. Focus on looking for the good in everything instead of whining and complaining, being jealous and envious on the success, abundance, prosperity of others. Remember to always plant good seeds wherever we may be for these will be our legacy.
Good night from my side of the world. It's almost midnight. Advance blessed Sunday to you all.
Remember, you are loved 😇.
Try to live meaningful with happy not with only body.
That's true my friend. Thank you for dropping by. Have a beautiful day.
⋆ ᴛʜᴇ ᴘʟᴀᴄᴇ ғᴏʀ sᴏᴜᴛʜᴇᴀsᴛ ᴀsɪᴀɴ ᴄᴏɴᴛᴇɴᴛ ᴏɴ ʜɪᴠᴇ
⋆ sᴜʙsᴄʀɪʙᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜᴇ ᴀsᴇᴀɴ ʜɪᴠᴇ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴜɴɪᴛʏ
⋆ ғᴏʟʟᴏᴡ ᴛʜᴇ ᴀsᴇᴀɴ ʜɪᴠᴇ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴜɴɪᴛʏ ᴠᴏᴛɪɴɢ ᴛʀᴀɪʟ
⋆ ᴅᴇʟᴇɢᴀᴛɪᴏɴ ʟɪɴᴋs 25 ʜᴘ⇾50 ʜᴘ⇾100 ʜᴘ⇾500 ʜᴘ⇾1,000 ʜᴘ
Sending love my dearest Ate 😘💕🙏🏻
Such a beautiful sunset you have there plus the beautiful full moon. And whatta happy dog accompanying you there at Nanay Tess grave.
Love love 💌
Thanks my beautiful sister❤️❤️❤️
Sorry for your loss.
My condolences to you and your family
Thank you my friend. Continue living now still grieving but now mostly celebrating the life of my beloved second Mom, my mother-in-law.
You're welcome
You're welcome
Goodnight my friend. Have an awesome day tomorrow at work and for the rest of the week as well.
Thank you
You’re lucky of your mother-in-law that she’s not toxic and Marites at all. F
You’re lucky of your mother-in-law that she’s not toxic and Marites at all. I can feel your pain. My father passed away last 2016 but until today, I'm longing to hear his presence. I miss his voice, his sermons, seeing him eat his favorite foods and the way he talk to other people. But this is the reality that people come and go. While our body can do anything, we should always prepare ourselves to accept things we can't control.
Yeap, that's why I am truly grateful and honored to have her as my mother-in-law. She is just so kind, sweet, loving, supportive and never judging and meddles.
I can understand the feeling of losing a loved one, I've been there. Stay strong, create happy moments with loved ones, especially family. The grief won't go away easily, but you will grow stronger over time. The biggest support you can get is from your family. My prayer of comfort is with you and your family.