RE: Why Is It So Hard To Say What I Mean?

It really happens a lot. Even when you decide to give someone a gift one day, and the next day you urgently need something and decide to ask—they say, "That's the reason you previously brought the gift" 😩

I'm the kind of person who doesn't like to talk, but if I feel I'm being misunderstood, I ask them what I've been saying so far to see if they comprehend.

Among peers who are angels of insults, I always have to disappear over and over again. What's the use of saying something when they already have a frame they want your words to fit into? No one is always able to give a perfect response to a question.

Anyway, you're doing your best, and you don't have to feel depressed about being misunderstood. Try to slow down a bit to see if they are understanding you mid-speech as you talk—unless it's a short reply. Be ready to explain things too. I also used to hate doing that because I was always in issues of: "You go explain tire, no evidence." Public speaking isn't a day job. One has to be in it to be it if they don't have the natural talent.

Have a nice day