RE: When it gets heated

Exactly, if the other person is listening. And some times, instead of arguing, I'll let the other person talk, if I see the point he or she is trying to bring out, then I've learnt. If I don't, I'll try to make my point, and if the other person doesn't want to listen.... I'll keep it short... Arguements can take the better part of one's day, if one let it