Honestly, who even start with this word that men shouldn't show weakness? We are all humans and we need to behave as humans. Just because you're a guy doesn't mean you can show your weakness or ask for help. People have this mindset that only women can show weakness but what about men that are facing a lot and need people? Truth is, many people are facing a lot but just using smiles to hide their pains and problem. Because some people are laughing doesn't mean everything is good for the them. Some people doesn't have a choice than to hide their pain because there's no one to run to or share their pain.
But I will say you should take it easy and never overthink because thinking too much can cause another thing in the body which is not a good idea. Just look for someone you trust and comfortable with and share your pain because carrying it alone is not a good thing. And always do something that will bring smiles to your face and make you think less.
Smiles...
That's how most people see it.
They expect that we be strong and take it all in while not showing any form of.. uno weakness.
But we are humans too. It's just the world we live in.
See a man crying and weeping today and the first thing you tell him is.."haba, na man you be o." Meaning he's not expected to cry or feel bad, and even if he will, he shouldn't do so in the open unless he will be see as less of a man... But then, it is well.
It's alright Mama. I will be fine. We will all be fine. Thanks for taking your time to read through and for your understanding too
Very well appreciated.
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