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RE: Hive-Naija Weekend Engagement #70- “LOVE VS FINANCIAL SECURITY
LOVE OR MONEY
Well, I believe both can coexist. Back in the day our Parents were not lazy. They went all out to meet the demands of the Family. They had clear understanding of their responsibilities, who would be at home and who would be working either white collar jobs or at the farm.
We need to understand that behind those words 'i love you' are responsibilities lying behind. Loving someone is work, it is active. Love is not all about "I love you talk your own." Without wisdom from both parties, Love would seem like frustration.
Love is good but there's more. The World has evolved and if one is struggling at this age, that person has to struggle with Wisdom and creativity. Imagine being married to someone one who is still sticking to an old way of earning income that is not serving in this generation and is refusing to adapt, that would turn out to be a burden.
In this generation, many guys who are claiming to be "struggling" are actually not doing anything, they are just waiting for a big opportunity to come to them out of Nowhere.
If my Partner is putting in the right efforts and is diligent, of course I would choose and support him.
