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RE: Hive-Naija Weekend Engagement #69- “TRUST ISSUES”
To be Sincere in as much as we are expected to have an "automatic trust" in our Partner, personally, my trust in my Partner is strengthened by track records.
How much you've built your reputation, not putting me in a position to doubt or question your loyalty, being transparent and making clear and defined friendships over time strengthens my trust for you.
While this may sound as jealousy, I assure you, it's not. Best Friends means (to me) Best out of my Friends, I believe this title should be kept for me! Lol (Believe I'm not a hater) I believe I am an open minded person so I like to see things from their perspective and draw reasonable conclusion.
He can have good friends of the opposite gender but relating with them should have clear boundaries. If you need to spend the night somewhere else, it must definitely be at his fellow guy's place or a hotel. He should already know this without me even telling him.
I am the one choosing to do life with you, go through your highs and lows, carry your Children, be your solace and a lot more, I should be your Best Friend.
Trust issues can begin to rise when you're character becomes questionable.
I would really want all the ladies in his life to know my place in his life and respect it and he should be the one setting that standard.