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RE: Stabbed In The Heart, Scarred With Wisdom
Hey Favey, reading this, I had so many thoughts running in and out of my head and even at this point I’m not sure what I have to say but I’d say something anyways.
I have also been in a position when I felt like I was wrong showing kindness to someone and I hated that I felt so. Doing good is good, the problem is the person that the good is done to. So, no matter the outcome of our kind heart towards someone, we shouldn’t regret it, instead, we should learn from them and make sure we don’t make people regret doing good to us too.
It’s fine that you took the slides back but I would have also supported you if you had left it for him after telling him what he did was wrong, trust me, he would respect you even more because that is not what most people would do.
Remember I asked you if you could give him back the slides? That is my suggestion in this case because you can’t use that slide as you’d normally use it and that will make a lot of difference because not everyone can do that. But then, it’s just a suggestion.
First off, is it nice that you had so many things running in and out of your mind? I guess it’s good. Let’s have it.
Alright, I guess we have all been in that situation. Trust me, Hope. I love doing good. It pleases my heart when I help people. Why do you think I have him in the first place without even thinking of the possibility that he might not return it?
Sadly, the world is not so simple, love. If I had left it, he would have done it over and over again. Remember I told you that I saw him outside and then he promised to return it the next day, but he didn't. He lied, Hope.
He’s a bad person…
I know you love doing good more than anyone, at least these days.
Yeah, the world is not so simple and I also understand that too. But giving him the benefits of the doubt, this was his first time ever asking you for something and he did this, I believe most people if not everyone deserves a second chance.
Exactly! He is a bad person and you want to pay him back in his own coin. Well love, if I ever tell you a story about something like this or anything related, don’t let me pay someone back in their own coin, I know paying evil with good is definitely the best (but the hardest).
And I know, it’s hard, I even doubt I’d be able to do it and that is why I’m just going to leave you to making the final call because I trust you’d make the best choice 🥰 (whatever it is, I support you).
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