Some people don't deserve it.

Humans are indeed very mysterious. Their thoughts were complicated and hard to imagine. There are some people who are trying their best to find a job to support their family. The economic condition is not so good and it’s quite understandable. Again, there are some people who are denying accepting a job opportunity. That's not the end effect the person who was offering opportunity also being compared for offering opportunity. Why all of a sudden, I am saying that. Obviously, I have reason for discussing it.

I try to stay far from others business because I think this is something that others can do for them. I shouldn't waste my precious time on other people. I think sometimes I forget about it and make mistakes. I have a cousin who is the same age as me. In fact, he is a little older than me. He stopped studying in class IX. After that he worked for a temporary time. But for no reason, he stopped working and from that time he has been an unemployed person. His excuse was a very silly one. He said that he would travel for month after that he would fully focus on working. 5 years have already gone but the day is yet to come.

After so many years his thoughts had already changed. Now he thinks why he shouldn’t earn money for the family. It was his thought and I had nothing to do with it. In that family only his little sister earns little money to support the family. Their family can barely go on but he is shameless to eat on his little sister's money without making any contribution. He is my cousin, but I haven't seen anyone spineless like him. My parents also try to support them financially whenever possible. If he started to work, financial problems of his family would solve easily.

My aunt keeps saying, if possible, there are any job opportunities for him, we should try even using reference. I don't pay attention to such a thing because deep down I know that he doesn’t even pay attention if we mention such an opportunity. In last few days my mom kept nagging to manage something for him. I know that my mother is concerned about them, but I feel they are not worthy of concern because their current financial state of the present time is their choice. As my mother keeps mentioning it to me many times, I reached out some of my friends for it.

One of my friend's brothers started business and, in that business, they need a trusted person. And my cousin was suitable for it. The salary was decent and good enough to run their family, and his sister's money can be used as savings. In a word their family could run without anyone’s help in that case and the work was not so difficult. When I informed about it to my aunt, she said the salary was small, which was a common excuse. I still informed my cousin. The ridiculous part happened at that time. He said if the work was so good, then why wasn’t I doing the job, as I am also an unemployed person.

Hearing that I just became quiet. I could argue with them and defeat him with logic, but I felt it was unnecessary as there were no benefits for me. In fact, for this kind of reason, I don't usually even bother to talk about their family. For my mother's request I just done it and I got my lesson. Some people don't deserve opportunity. I don't like someone comparing me with them. Even if anyone tries to compare it, it should be at a similar level. I am just done with it, and I am very sure that there will be no next time because they don't appreciate the opportunities we try to give them.