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RE: I Would Do It All Again In A Heartbeat | Day 2 | BloPoMo
I feel I'm missing key components out of this story. You had me hooked, a blossoming story of friendship and connection, and then you ripped the rug from under my feet - shame on you lol!
But how did it die? Was it just one of that you both slowly grew apart through time and circumstance? Or was there some key parts to this story that had both of you ending that friendship.
Moreover, if you miss it, what's stopping you from reaching out? :)
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Lol, OK, I'll try to explain it briefly here. Changing financial circumstances, (loss of my income), changes of location (we moved to another village further away from her home address). Those two things together made it much more difficult for ME personally to maintain contact. I did my best but noticed that it actually turned out to be very much a one-way traffic. So it turned out that if I didn't call her, I shouldn't expect her to call me. If I didn't go to her, I certainly couldn't count on her coming to me. With the sale of our car, and only having a prepaid card to call in an emergency, the possibilities disappeared for me. And where she had all the possibilities, she herself made no effort at all. That hurt me, but that's exactly what's holding me back now. More has happened, but it goes too far to describe it in full detail now.
Oh interesting. I've had similar things happen to me in the past!
Oh i get it now, i was also looking for this explanation in your story. Its so sad when the love and effort is one sided and i get it why you are still holding back. But whatever decision you take i wish you all the best😃
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Oh, then it was less of a mutual thing, and more her pulling away :( ... It's definitely on her to reach out if she's ever interested, you did your best.
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