We have been given a powerful reminder that love is not first proven by words but our character is what determines it. What is important here is the emphasis on God's nature which is the main standard of us, our relationship with humans.
If God, who is holy, knows how to show kindness to those that do evil and whatever, then the love is clearly not to reward good people but an expression of who truly God is, which is the character.
The compassion with parents deeply convinced. So even flawed parents show love to their children, reflecting God's compassion of humans. That makes this access of parental love, especially over child mistake or struggles, feels like, it feels as if it's not a divine instinct.
In 1 Peter 1:21 is practical. Winning hearts does not begin with arguments, accusations, but it demands what is consistent. So when we conduct ourselves, when we speak, where words face, then this applies not only to marriage, but family and friendship and everything in our lives.
Brother Eli message gently shifts to responsibility. Before asking why others do not love us, we must first of all examine how they love us. First of all examine how they love us, we live our life. The transformation of relationships often begins with transformed behavior. In a world where we are quick to adjust, we are to all anger, all sorts of bitterness that is going on through our mind,
must be patient.
We must humble ourselves and live a life that will be worth emulating.