Sharing thoughts ? Whom to share?

The human brain is mysterious and powerful. It’s the thing that made humans the most intelligent and best creature on the planet. Our mind keeps thinking about different kinds of things, and it’s a non-stop process. I want to say we rarely stop thinking. Our imagination and planning are the results of it. Many ideas come to our minds every time, and some share those easily, and some hardly share them with others. It’s different based on the person. Are you curious to know what I do when I think about something in my mind?

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I am such a person who has lots of secrets, and I rarely open up my thoughts to anyone because I want to stay on the safe side; if I keep sharing my thoughts, I may end up sharing a few of my secrets. Till now such a thing hasn’t happened to me, but still I am afraid, or I don’t want to take the risk. But it doesn’t mean I don’t talk to anyone, or I don’t share anything with anyone. It’s true that I absorb most of my thoughts that come to my mind without sharing with others as long as it’s not necessary to share with others or I need some suggestions to make things better.

Suppose there are some issues in my family or something related to me, and that is troubling me because I can't find a solution; I try to discuss it with one of my female friends. In fact, I have only one female friend (just a friend; don’t think too much 😅). There is a reason for sharing it with her. Naturally, a female can understand the situation better, and she is much more understanding than any other female. At least, it can be said that she understands me better than anyone, and she has known me for more than ten years. Although in rare cases, I suck in such a situation, she could help me, and she is quite good at mental support if needed. And all the suggestions she gave me were top-class and effective for me. So, it’s the reason I have a strong belief that she can help me in such a situation, but I try my best not to irritate her, as everyone has their own life.

If I get an idea related to finance or improving my life, I immediately share it with my little brother and little sister. I think it’s because most of the time I stay at home, and when ideas come to my mind, they stay with me. I know they don’t know more than me or aren’t as understanding as me, but I choose to share with them even if they can’t give me any idea in return. It’s like I am sharing the idea just to let them know. I feel like I am just saying to myself that I got an idea.

When it comes to writing, I try to ask about the opinions on the topic that I want to write about. I know I have my own thoughts to share, but sometimes others can also help me to give some good points or say something that inspires me to gather some ideas in a better way. I ask the opinions of my little brother, sister, and sometimes also my students if they are in front of me.

There are some problems in life that trouble a lot. It says sharing can solve half of the problems, but I don’t think so. I think it depends on whom I am sharing my problem with. Problems should be shared with the capable ones who have the ability to solve problems; otherwise, sharing problems with everyone can bring more trouble for me.