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I believe humans are naturally selfish. They only do things for rewards. I don’t mean only financial rewards I also mean emotional rewards. If you get enough emotional (you feel good communicating with them), mental (your brain is stimulated by interacting with them), or financial rewards from interacting with them, keep doing it. If it is completely one sided then that is not a very healthy relationship. Just my two cents.
Yeah, that is a good point. I think being selfish gets a bad rap sometimes, but it's often necessary for self preservation and your mental health! I knew it was going to be a fine line in this post of not coming across like a greedy SOB!
I’d summarize this post as “one sided relationships are usually not the best”. So definitely not an SOB.
Well that is nice point of view. So commenting to get a reply as reward, to feel noticed. Never looked at it this way.
I do think that comments are from one side some kind of appreciation for the post and on the other side some advertising for your own account.
A one-sided relationship is never healthy.