That time of the month.

How do you deal with the fact that you can wake up feeling all upbeat, determined and you are so sure of what you will achieve for the day and all of a sudden with a what seemed like a switch of buttons within you, you day begins to spiral downwards?

Or how do you deal with the fact hat you can wake up feeling lost, disoriented and not knowing how exactly you feel?

Well, a lot of people may not relate especially men and be it as it may, even some ladies cannot relate with the strangeness that come with that time of the month. I call these set of ladies the blessed ones whom do not know what miracle had been wrought on them by nature or whatever is behind their makeup.

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While some ladies see is as the most dreadful part of the month and its worst when it’s something that practically repeats its self every period of the month. I don’t know how to qualify the feeling but I guess it’s better experienced than said.

Some months seem to be better than others while some are more dramatic than others. I’d never come to that point where am welcoming it with all my heart.

Some times I wish it away but alas you will still get to cry when it doesn’t show up. The shenanigans are a lot to grapple with. Where do we start from. From the sudden feel of general unwell was to the hormonal disruptions that makes you not to think straight or the dull pain that starts nagging at your core over time only to grow in intensity as it boils over.

Do I talk about the inferred pains. That starts from the core and moves to the back and sometimes proceeds to the butt and even the head and ofcourse the lower abdomen, the center of all attraction.

Some months I get to throw up and other times not. Sometimes am so hungry but am scared to eat because I do not want to aggravate the mistress of my stomach.

The weakness and emptiness that comes from sleeping all day while wringing in pain. Someone says go take a pain relief. I ask for how long. Some don’t even get to work again cos the drugs be like, man am tired of this battles, let me breathe.

As the days draw near, the heart races in fear and sometimes it comes like a thief in the night unexpectedly when the day is not yet. You have no option than to attend to the mistress of your existence.

Depending on the number of the days the mistress stays, you are at its service and can’t seem to do so much. If you can battle it with pain, by all means do but if you ever see a lady going through that time of the month, by all means show her some super love. It can be alot. I repeat, it can be alot.

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