WE #294: House-Proud in My Own Way: Why Cleanliness Feels Like Self-Care
Hello everyone!
Today is a great day to share it with you my answer in one of @galenkp's #weekend-engagement topics.
Are you house-proud and care how your home presents and its state of cleanliness? Explain why or why not.
If you asked whether I’m house-proud and care about how my home looks and feels, I’d say yes, deeply but gently.
For me, being house-proud isn’t about having a perfect, showroom-ready space or stressing over every detail. It’s about valuing my home as a place of comfort, peace, and a reflection of who I am. My home is my sanctuary, especially after long, busy weekdays, and I believe its appearance has a big impact on my mood, mindset, and well-being.
My weekdays are usually packed. Work takes up most of my time and energy, so I’m often mentally tired by the end of the day. I try to keep things in order, but I don’t push myself to do heavy cleaning when I need rest. I’ve learned that balance matters. I focus on my responsibilities during the week, knowing the weekend will come, which is my favorite time to reconnect with my home.
On weekends, I really enjoy cleaning and organizing. I love waking up on Saturday mornings without any rush or alarms. I put on music, open the windows for fresh air, and start tidying up at my own pace. Cleaning on weekends feels more like therapy than a chore. It helps me reset both my space and my mind after a busy week.
I care about how my home looks because it affects how I feel inside. A clean and tidy home gives me a sense of calm and control. When everything is in order, my mind feels lighter. I can think clearly, relax, and enjoy simple things like having coffee, journaling, or just sitting quietly. But when there’s clutter, I feel overwhelmed, like there are unfinished tasks waiting for me.
Being house-proud is also about respecting myself and the people I share my space with. My home doesn’t need to be fancy or perfectly styled, but I want it to feel welcoming. I want guests to feel warmth when they come in, and I want to feel at ease every time I walk through the door. Clean floors, organized spaces, and a fresh scent make a home feel cared for.
What I enjoy most about cleaning on weekends is the sense of accomplishment it gives me. Every task I finish, like washing dishes, folding clothes, or wiping surfaces, feels like a small win. These simple actions remind me that I can take care of my space, even when life is busy. It’s quietly empowering. I don’t rush; I take my time and enjoy it. Cleaning turns into a personal ritual, not just a chore.
I also think a clean home helps my emotional and mental well-being. When everything is in its place, I feel more grounded. It helps me start the new week feeling refreshed and motivated. Sundays feel especially meaningful to me. After tidying up, I get my space ready for the days ahead. It’s how I welcome a new week with purpose and a positive outlook.
Still, I don’t believe in perfection. Some days, things get messy, and that’s okay. Life happens. Being house-proud isn’t about being hard on myself. It’s about caring when I can, doing what feels doable, and knowing that rest is just as important as getting things done. My home changes with me and shows my routines, struggles, and small wins. Cleaning on weekends has become a way to take care of myself, slow down after busy weekdays, and reconnect with who I am.