RE: Red flags in a relationship

To be honest right now I feel kissing for a long time is irritating and unnecessary

Have you ever kissed someone you love?

have you ever dated?

if your answer is no to both questions then of course kissing would be irritating to you because you are yet to experience it with someone you love, and as i mentioned in the post, if you are not in love with the person, you may find it uncomfortable kissing for a long time