RE: She developed another lazy stereotype

This transition between adolescence and adulthood is common. Parents shouldn't enable excessive idleness because we neither should nor can (since we're not eternal) be lifelong providers for our children. Also, this life story—which is excellent by the way—I find closely relates to Lao Tzu's famous saying: "Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime."