Stuck is not an option
It is known to all that family members and friends are both important for a human, and thinking about life without them is almost impossible for us. Family is a fated matter, and friends are the choice of ours. Genuinely, family members and friends are both our well-wishers, and they try to support us whenever we need their support.
A true friend naturally tries to help and support in different ways. It's not necessary for every friend to need to have the same kind of mentality, and because of that, having different opinions and thoughts is very natural. But sometimes some of our friends try to draw us back and keep us stuck. The possible reason can be many things. Some may try to do so because of jealousy, and some try to do so because they want to stay far from us. Those friends who feel jealous are no less than enemies. Because of the jealousy, they want us to be stuck with them, and such a thing cannot be done by a true friend. In that case, I won't consider them a true friend if I realize such a thing. Even if I don't want to humiliate them, I will start to keep a distance from the man; with time, it will increase for sure, and naturally, affairs are in a period of time. There will be no connection with them for sure; it is for formality.
But there are some true friends also who don't want us because they are afraid of isolating themselves from friends. It's not because they don't want their friends to move forward in life. The intention is to keep your friend with them. I think that at the beginning, such a thing is very natural, but I believe that a true friend can understand it well. What will be good is a friend, and after having a friendly conversation, they will not try to stick to any of your friends, as they also want your friends to shine in life. In that case, it's not a bigger issue.
When it comes to family, it's not the same as friends. I think family members are well-wishers, and they always try their best to stay with us, especially in times of danger, and they are the ones who try to encourage us during our bad times. So it is very natural for family members, especially elders, to want us to do better in life and shine in life, and bring all the fame. At least I can say that it is the situation for most of the family. Our elders make plans for us since our childhood, and they try to do it in the best way. The way they are is good, and I never doubt their intention because I know whatever they do for us, they have a good intention for it. But every time the outcome is not positive, and they are not perfect. As always, their plan is also not perfect.
Sometimes our plan and their plan become different. Especially when we grow up and start to develop our individual mentality. Sometimes we want to go ahead in a specific way, but our family members are not ready to accept it or allow it because they think it's not the best for us. In that case, it's like they are trying to stick with us and follow their desired way. stick day, don't hesitate to play the emotional card as well as emotional blackmail. The reaction can be different from person to person, but in my case, I hate emotional blackmail. Even if they are my family members, I will make sure they face a consequence for it. Don't think I am a bad person just because of it. I am one of the most obedient and polite boys, and I listen to my parents' words all the time. Even if I can listen to their word in the future, I can't allow them to control my life because I need to come to my own personal decision. I think my decision is the final decision. They can give me suggestions, but they can't force me, and I believe they have no right to force me. They are my parents; that does not mean I am bound to follow every word they say. I necessarily consider such a thing, and I will accept it if it's logical and makes sense to me, but I won't hesitate to deny it if it does not make sense to me. But I don't allow them to make my personal decision on their own, and in that case, I am ready to go to extra lengths.
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You're absolutely right. Our families are expected to be our well-wishers and our biggest supporters, but as time goes on people are becoming more and more distant and selfish. Now there are infighting, jealousy, sabotage inside families as well. Well. And so I guess the fact that we should be respecting our families through everything like before isn't the best course of action right now. Rather we need to be able to evaluate what's actually good and what is sabotage.
Hmm. They suppose to be our supporters but sometimes they become the obstacles on our way. It should not be like that but that is how it is. In fact such a situation occur many times. Moreover, I really don't like when family members specially parents try to make decision for us without even asking us. There should be a boundary for it.
Hmmm, the emotional blackmail is very possible but I think can be averted maturely
it's a common card many parents play and it's not less than shackles.
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Allowing your family members to jeopardize your future would be the worst ever. if one can be able to talk to them just for them to understand, that would be better.
Their opinion is important and should be taken in consideration but allowing them to make my decision is not good. Decision should be mine.
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