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The fact that people can easily change is one of the best reasons why I think it is best to build a long term relationship but then as much as I love to have people by my side for as long as possible, I still learn to manage with or without them because even as loyal as they might be, death is another thing that is inevitable and if we build relationships with putting that in mind, we might be really hurt in the end. I think this is one reason why people tend to cause God, because they loss someone they've built a connection with.
Going for long term is the best but we just have to be careful not to rely on humans for too long because they are humans whether they look like angels or devils, we are all living this world someday and we don't know when. I think this is the only advantage of building short-term relationships and that's why I will say they work hand in hand with each other.
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You're absolutely right. There are uncertainty like death that changes everything. However, I generally think it's become of who I am; the things I represent and what I try to achieve. I crave stability. People who would stay through thick and thin. Irrespective of the fact that I'm not depending on them, we generally underestimate how we need people by overstating the need for independence. I loathe short term building and that's because it's never favoured me all my life. I think change or constant negative change can be detrimental to what we aim to build. Thanks for reading. Your comment was concise and indepth.
I can understand that and I totally agree with you, at some point we all need those that are willing to stay with us at every moment of our lives. I do like to build short term relationships because I'm not sure of who a person is so I love having short term relationship until I get to know if I can build a long-term relationship with them and if that happens it's easy for me to stay with them through thick and thin.
I find it hard to build long term relationships if I want to be sincere but then I do have long term relationships.
You're welcome, thank you more for giving me more reasons to want to build long-term relationships 🤓.
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