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RE: A CHILD’S EXCESSES: WHOSE FAULT IS IT?
You’re right, some children tend to forget home training but most of the time it is due to lack of home training or negligence from parents that a child tend to forget what he or she has been taught.
My own is, the more parents have the mind that their children are to be blamed sometimes, the more they develop more defensive mechanisms to prove that they did all they can but that child was just born to be stubborn. It shouldn’t be so.
Like, I have been around children and see how parents tend to bring up their kids, I have seen so many mistakes they make but they still say they’ve done all they could. They basically forget about the little things and focus on the big things meanwhile it is those small things that the child learnt that will determine whether or not they will stick to what they’ve learned while growing up.
Yeah
Small things matter a lot.
There was this small girl her mom always drop in our house. Anytime she’s given food to eat, she will eat little and go and play, the come back to it and does it repeatedly. If you force her to eat, she will cry until the day she was dropped with me and I was the only one at home.
“Eat that food, finish it and seat down for 20min” was what I said to her. Small girl o, like 6years started crying. Omo.
When I tire eyes for her, she comport. But was still crying
We did the same thing for like 5days
Now, anytime they give her food and I’m there, she dare not stand up until she finishes her food.
And her mom will be saying, she’s just a child she’s not hungry that’s why 😒😒😒
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