The impact of divorce on both parents and children.

Greetings from this sphere and I am happy to drop my entry for this edition. This is the first edition. One of the trending thing in the globe today is the issue of Divorce. There are many marriages today that couldn't stay for a while and the next thing they are agitating for is a quit in that marriage. It would interest you to note that many young people that rushed into marriages today are driving towards Divorce.

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Few years ago a prominent personality in my area shared about a wedding that just took place within a week and decided to end with a divorce. I was shocked even though I couldn't figure out the exact challenges they had but I was quite sure that all efforts proved abortive when attempts were made to reconcile them.
In another development, a tenant in my former house got married after two years and God blessed them with a baby boy ended up their marriage in court. This singular act could result to traumatic situation in the life of the child and the parents might also go through some psychological transformation.

Divorce is actually a form trauma that makes the children to be emotionally unbalanced and sometimes affects their total well being.
Divorce can cause affect children directly and indirectly.

Divorce can have impact on the children in the following areas;

• Feeling of being guilty or sad could cause emotional distress in the lives of the children. The child would be left with the option of something commiting suicide or do an evil thing. When a child is under the influence or atmosphere of divorce, life seems not to be ok.
• Another effect this would cause is in the area of behavior. Like being disobedience etc. Most display of attitudes by children whose parents are divorced always have the problem in their behavior. Sometimes if not properly managed could lead to madness.
• Do you know that some of the academic challenges today are the effects of divorced family. This could also affect their brain.

Some of the challenges faced by parents includes stress, depression, high blood pressure and sometimes leads to death of any of the partner.
When it comes to divorce I wouldn't want ro spare any of the party either parents or children they face critical issues depending on how it all happened. It would be difficult for me to categorically put them into two classes or order of hierarchy as to whether the children face more traumatic situation than the mental stress that occurs in the parents.
Personally i don't like the two for any reason. Children from a divorced family or house if not properly managed could easily do lots of wild thing that can lead to death similarly if parents too aren't properly managed could do some worse things . I think to bring balance both of the conditions are traumatic situations.

There are aome parents that divorce their wives and marry another different woman to enable them cushion the effects of the negative impacts. What about the child?If he's young, definitely it would affect him negatively as he grows up.

Thanks for reading through.