SOMETIMES IS GOOD TO CUT OFF FROM SOME PEOPLE QUIETLY.

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Hi family, I couldn't participate in the third edition of the engagement last week due to the series of programs I had however thank God I am back now. It's great to meet up another intriguing topic which didn't caused me to think deeply like others. A single reading alone I was able to comprehend what it's required.

The first edition of week 184 comes with another interesting and almost like a daily way of life in the present world. The entire theme is captured as ghosting someone. Before I explore and share my perspective, I would like to expatiate on what ghosting entails.

Ghosting is deduced from the English word ghost. To a lay man like me, ghost simply means spirit however in this context it means several things. We are living in the world today where many practice the art of ghosting either directly or indirectly which has great impacts or influence on a particular individual.

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Ghosting someone entails building a strong resistance from someone without the person's knowledge. Ghosting means to cut off from someone indirectly without letting him know that this is the reason. Ghosting someone entails cutting off communication lines through sms, chats on social media handles o r make calls. Ghosting means to cut off relationship between two individuals which is normally practiced amongst a guy and a girl dating then one of the partners will disappear just like spirit or a ghost.

Most at times we snubbed people for so many reasons based on our individual uniqueness. I could remember vividly many contacts I had in my previous phone that I don't call neither do I relate with them any longer because of their character deformation hence I stopped calling and at times I put them on blacklist so that I have nothing in common with them. After a while when they noticed such, they will disappear by themselves silently like a ghost. There surplus reasons why people ghost others. I will like to share some here.

One of the reasons why some ghost others is because of they have noticed that such people are just liability instead of adding value they end up make you loose what what you even have. When you are stressed out with them, you will like to quietly withdraw from them without any cogent reason. You'll notice that you are no longer interested in walking with them. Sometimes you don't feel the vibration that caused you to be attached to them again hence the emotional attachment will drop. I have experienced that severally on different occasions. I'm the type that always give in to people based on trust but many find it difficult to reciprocate similar gestures back haven sacrifice a lot. Life's journey is symbiotic kind of relationship where both partners must be active or positively contributive.
When you are tired of people that don't contribute meaningfully to life, the next thing is just to withdraw and be yourself.

There are many people that were dating had to go into ghosting because of the way one of them was doing. Personally I wouldn't want ghosting someone to be done in a relationship. If you don't like anything be open and confident to confront the person and say your so that both of you can part ways. Don't keep anyone in the dark even though you don't like the person. Some people ghost someone because they have made another new friend probably who is more romantic than the other therefore they will quietly snubbed the other person.

Some people ghost others because they aren't ready to take responsibility or bear any commitments. While others entertain fear a lot hence develop strong resistance to change and trust which finally truncate one's relationship.

In conclusion, it's good to cut off some relationship quietly while others you need to take a bold step.

Thanks for reading through.