You are viewing a single comment's thread:
RE: THE INDISPENSABLE ROLE OF LOVE
Philosophy? Well, if that’s what you think of it then I’d say okay, hehe.
Perhaps I should have said perspective instead of philosophy. It happens when we communicate in second language. Don't mind, please.
Anyways, marriage is something that wasn’t designed by man like I mentioned,
I also believe so. Marriage is a gift to humans on earth by God Himself.
Recently I judged a LOH contest. From there I realized Christianity has a different take on about marriage than Islam. In Christian faith, once married means to protect it until death. There is no way to get out of the relationship. Correct me if I am wrong here.
In Islam also, marriage is considered really sacred. Nevertheless, it allows to end the relationship and there are proper and detailed guidelines about how this relationship should be ended respectfully and what kind of facilities the man is supposed to provide the woman. If you are interested in knowing Islamic perspective here is the link of a video lecture
Let me tell you one thing here. While Qur'anic guidelines are pretty clear about divorce, our culture and I think all the Muslim cultures see divorce as ugly. Moreover, I think no culture follows them as they are given to us. Some individuals might be following those guidelines on their own.
About my perspective on marriage, I also want to mention that it is not necessary for any of the partner be a bad person in order for a marriage to not work. Sometimes, two really nice people can also not get along with each other.
I understand you. 🥰
According to the Bible, a man(woman) can only put his wife(husband) away on the ground of infidelity and yes, I recently listened to a podcast where an Islamic lady talked about something similar.
For the fact that we don’t follow these teachings we profess, that alone is us calling problems for ourselves except we don’t even believe in the first place. We always try to play smart but in the real sense, we are not.
That’s right. The person doesn’t have to be a bad person for you to leave them. Not having the same interests and goals might be enough reason for some to know that someone might not be for them. But all of these should happen before anyone even thinks of marriage. There are some things we shouldn’t try to figure out in marriage.
When we met someone we have interest in settling down with, one thing we should ask ourselves is, can I be with them forever? The moment we ask that question, that moment we will start asking more questions to be sure we are making the right choices because, there are other important things to learn about in marriage too. You don’t want to carry over a course, you will only increase your workload and that will sometimes make you want to quit.
View more