Hello everyone, trust you are all doing great!
Today I’ll be discussing something we don’t talk about as humans., which is “ Always give people grace”
Over the years, I’ve realized that so many people do not give each other grace. The number one thing that is causing it is social media. I said social media because a lot of people tend to follow what they see on social media.
Life is really filled with problems or let me say ups and downs as humans, we all make mistakes but in a society that now prioritizes perfection, it is affecting us. We judge and criticize people a lot forgetting that we make mistakes too.
Giving people grace is more than just being good and nice but it is about deep understanding and being empathetic. This way, friendships and relationships will last longer and it will also help in fostering a good environment.
Give people grace because what if? I said what if because people are going through a lot behind closed doors which they don’t talk about and they act all fine. I know some of you will say it is everyone who is going through one thing or the other which is true but the truth is, one person has to make the move and not wait for each other before giving grace. For example, you have someone that you talk to every time and the person pulls back a little all of a sudden, you reach out to the person and the person isn’t still responding, and you also just back off. You didn’t give grace! I’m just using this as an example though I don’t know if it is strong enough.
What I’m driving at is that I realize when some people do this the reason is that they were going through tough times and they just didn’t want to talk about it at that time and they weren’t mentally stable. When you don’t give grace you won’t know these things.
Giving grace is kindness even when people don’t deserve it. Let’s learn to realize that everyone makes mistakes and sometimes mistakes don’t define a person. When grace is given, errors are looked beyond and the main focus will be on the person. When grace is given we grow as humans without carrying the weight of revenge and criticism.
Another thing we don’t know is that holding grudges can be very stressful and draining. When grace is given negative energy is released from our mind and good energy will fill our hearts.
The very first thing that comes with giving people grace is patience If you are not patient you can’t give grace.
To be honest, it can be tough to be graceful, even though it's a good thing to do. Sometimes, we don't feel like others deserve our kindness or forgiveness. But, that is when grace is most important. We need to think past how we feel at that moment and think about what will happen later.
In conclusion, giving grace means being kind and understanding instead of judging. It helps us have better relationships, a good mind, grow as people, and make things more positive. When we're graceful, we help others and make our community more caring. Let us try to be graceful, especially when it's hard. It can change the lives of those around us and our own lives too. Let us choose to give grace today! Thanks for your time!
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Most times the grace we give attract more grace to us, prayers behind us from the people we have assisted helps to save us from some kind of trouble, and not everyone can really speak out but we can touch the lives of those who are going through a lot when we show grace to the unknown.
Nice piece.