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Also, do not try being friends with people because of what you stand to gain
This is one of the mistakes some people do, they only want to associate with people bigger than them forgetting that those people won't easily accept them because they know their intention, discrimination is a bad thing to a certain level, oh this person is not as rich or great as me, i wont interact with him or this person is just a newbie as i am, i don't want to interact with his acc forgetting people below them can know someone above them and even refer them if they possess the skills those people want which they lack.
This is the reason why we have notions like "I can't marry him or her, they're not my level, I need someone with a higher level" and the person who is even talking has no level at all.
To be honest, I don't think there's anything wrong with being affiliated with what you stand to gain, (we all do this) I only find it very wrong when you try to be friends with people because of the benefit you might shortly enjoy. Be a colleague, or affiliate, but don't call yourself a friend.
Unfortunately even bigger people now see the discrimination and they already know these people are close to them because of what they have to offer.
lol I saw this somewhere on Facebook, a lady telling a guy who asked her out that he is not in her class, and when they dig her background, she still lives with her parents😅, meanwhile the guy is footing his bills alone...
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