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RE: Mindshare: Love is mostly a fairytale.
Point made clear, Most marriages that didn't last long was majorly because both parties involved came together for fun not for responsibility or challenges so immediately the challenges which is likely a bonus gift to all marriage those who weren't prepared will excuse themselves without looking back.
Another thing is that the world has lost all form of morals they believe sex talks and talks about the opposite sex is fun but like you said it kills of reality and makes them lose out in the future.
To take care of bills especially when you have a must pay bills like monthly medications you gatz to take life serious because no one will pay those bills for you, each second makes a difference.
I like your commitment, don't worry God will keep on supporting you in all your endeavors.
Thank you for the kind words. Yes, I have to agree, a lot of people do not prepare for the challenges they potentially face. This one is due to negligence and not being aware; training onets mind to learn from the experience of other married people.
The reality of paying bills, health challenges and all that, it can make the marital experience very challenging.
A friend told me that he's not ready to take any shit from any woman when there are thousands of ladies out there so why die young in the name of marriage, you can imagine such mindset.
Sometimes is not even the bills, because you still see those who are doing well financially run away from marriage so I think they are not mentally trained and ready.