MESSAGE OF LIFE 🧕🌼
A vow to all the sisters and daughters of your nation!!!
Some tips to make the atmosphere of the house happy, and to gain respect among your in-laws, definitely follow this tip.
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1️⃣ Make it a routine for your husband that when he comes home, he first goes to his mother, and then comes to you.
2️⃣ Whenever he goes to the market, he must bring some gift for his mother-in-law, be it a suit, or ten rupees worth of peanuts, etc.
3️⃣ When you start changing clothes, take your two favorite pairs to your mother-in-law, ask her which pair of these two should I wear, then wear whatever she says.
4️⃣ Whenever your husband treats you well, praise your mother-in-law in front of her, saying that she has raised her son very well.
5️⃣ If you have to sit in the car, then make your mother-in-law sit in the front seat with great love, and tell her that this is your right, because it is because of your prayers that Allah has given us this car.
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6️⃣ If you start cooking at home, ask your mother-in-law what you want to cook today. Most of the time, she will leave this matter to you. But if she asks for something special, cook it.
7️⃣ Never, in front of anyone, speak ill of your husband, your mother-in-law or any other in-law relative, because this is also backbiting. And backbiting is such an unfortunate thing that destroys homes.
8️⃣ If ever your mother-in-law and your husband are sitting together and talking, then try your best not to call your husband and pick him up from there.
9️⃣ Praise your mother-in-law for every choice. And assure her that you appreciate her high taste.
🔟 Sit next to your mother-in-law and talk to her about her parents. Tell her stories of her childhood and youth.
1️⃣1️⃣. Sometimes, without her asking, press her feet. Comb her hair.
1️⃣2️⃣. Keep praising your mother-in-law in front of your neighbors and relatives.
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May Allah be your supporter and helper.
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