Prestar dinero a alguien a veces disminuye la autoestima./ Lending money to someone sometimes lowers your self-esteem.[ESP-ENG]

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Cada persona tiene su propia autoestima. Estas personas siempre se preocupan por mantener su dignidad. Nunca actúan de manera que dañen la autoestima de los demás. Son muy cuidadosas en todos los aspectos para evitar cualquier crítica. Intentan siempre actuar con honestidad para no ser acusadas de engañar a nadie. Independientemente de si pueden beneficiar a alguien o no, siempre se abstienen de estafar. Sin embargo, hay personas con baja autoestima que constantemente piensan en cómo engañar a los demás. Nunca logran ser importantes para nadie, ya que su comportamiento es tan negativo que la gente siempre las mira con malos ojos. Su autoestima se ve gravemente afectada por su comportamiento y sus engaños. Hay quienes piden dinero prestado constantemente. Sin importar el poder que tengan, intentan aparentar ser muy importantes.

Como resultado, hacen muchas cosas que superan sus capacidades. Sin pensar en el futuro, cuando paguen sus deudas, siguen pidiendo prestado a más personas. Cuando no pueden pagar sus deudas, prolongan sus días inventando excusas o fingiendo enfermedades. Estas personas nunca consideran que deben trabajar duro para ganar dinero, disfrutar de sus aficiones y vivir cómodamente. Si piden prestado a alguien, nunca serán bien vistos en la sociedad. Al contrario, la sociedad los odia constantemente. Son personas que, si tienen problemas económicos en la familia, piden prestado y comen caro, sin pensar en lo perjudicial que es esta acción y las consecuencias que puede tener para ellos en el futuro. Un préstamo no puede durar para siempre, por lo que quienes prestan dinero terminan descuidándolos al no recuperarlo, destruyendo la confianza depositada en ellos y deteriorando aún más una buena relación.

Se ha observado de diversas maneras que quien presta y quien pide prestado rara vez tienen una buena relación. Si una persona recibe un préstamo, nunca podrá devolverlo a tiempo, lo que provocará una ruptura en la relación y destruirá la confianza entre ambas partes. Por lo tanto, cuando alguien nos pide un préstamo, debemos ser conscientes de que si se lo concedemos, nuestra relación con esa persona se deteriorará. Porque si no le prestamos, pensará que no la apoyamos en su momento de necesidad. Si volvemos a prestarle, el préstamo no será devuelto, lo que también resultará en la pérdida del dinero y la ruina de la relación. Sin embargo, quien pide un préstamo no lo piensa tanto. Porque si quienes piden un préstamo pensaran en su futuro, sin duda habrían ahorrado algo para los momentos difíciles. Además, si surge un gran peligro y los gastos superan los ahorros, entonces es necesario pedir un préstamo. Sin embargo, ese préstamo debe devolverse a tiempo. Si no se devuelve a tiempo, nadie querrá prestarle dinero una segunda vez.

Hay muy pocas personas a nuestro alrededor que pidan prestado y lo devuelvan a tiempo o rápidamente. La mayoría, una vez que piden prestado, olvidan que deben devolver el dinero. Después de un tiempo, sienten que ese dinero les pertenece, que les pertenece por derecho. Así que no sienten la necesidad de devolverlo. Y por estas razones, destruyen su autoestima. Hay quienes piden prestado constantemente y viven bien, e incluso a veces invitan a otros a comprar y comer. Estos comportamientos revelan la verdadera naturaleza de personas mezquinas. Estas personas carecen de vergüenza. Quienes piden prestado son, en cierto modo, desvergonzados. Sin embargo, definitivamente debemos mantenernos alejados de estas personas, porque son muy perjudiciales para nuestra sociedad. Estas personas no ganan dinero trabajando duro ni manteniendo sus propios negocios y familias. Piden prestado dinero del trabajo y las ganancias de otros para mantener a sus familias, dinero que nunca devuelven. Por lo tanto, siempre debemos mantenernos alejados de estas personas desvergonzadas y sin autoestima.

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Every person has their own sense of self-esteem. These people are always conscious of maintaining their own respect. These people never behave or behave in such a way with others that their self-esteem is damaged. They are even very conscious in all aspects so that no one can point a finger at them and say bad things. They also try to always follow the honest path so that they do not hear that they have cheated someone. Whether they can benefit people or not, they always refrain from cheating people. But there are some people who have no sense of self-esteem. These people constantly think about how to cheat people. They can never be important to other people. Because the behavior of these people is so bad that people always look at them with a bad eye. And the self-esteem of these people is damaged the most because of their behavior and cheating people. There are some people who constantly borrow from different people. No matter how much power these people have, they try to show themselves to be very big.

As a result, these people do many things beyond their capabilities. Without thinking that in the future when various debts will be paid off, they keep borrowing from more people. When these people are unable to repay their debts, they keep extending their days by making various excuses or showing physical illness. These people never think that they have to work hard to earn money and fulfill their hobbies and live a comfortable life. If they borrow from someone else, they will never be identified as a good person in the society. Rather, the people of the society constantly hate these people. These people are of such a nature that if they have financial problems in the family, they will borrow from people and eat expensive food, but they will not think a bit about how bad this action is and how harmful it can be for them in the future. The life of a loan cannot be continued for long, so those who keep lending money to people will also start neglecting them due to not getting their money back and the trust in which they lent will be destroyed, which will make a good relationship much worse.

It has been seen in various ways that the person who lends and the person who borrows never have a good relationship in life. If a person is ever lent, he can never repay his loan on time, which will cause a rift in the relationship and the trust between them will be destroyed. So when someone comes to us asking for a loan, we should be aware that if we lend to someone, our relationship with him will definitely deteriorate. Because if we do not lend, he will think that we did not stand by his side in his time of need. If we lend again, the loan will not be returned, which will also result in the money being lost and the relationship will be ruined. However, the person who is asking for a loan is not thinking so much. Because if those who ask for a loan were thinking about their future, they would definitely have saved something for their bad times. Moreover, if a great danger comes, in which case the expenditure exceeds the savings, then it is definitely necessary to borrow. However, that loan should definitely be repaid on time. If the loan is not repaid on time, no one will want to lend a second time.

There are very few people around us who borrow from someone and repay it on time or very quickly. Most people, once they borrow, forget that they need to repay the loan. After a while, they feel as if that money was their own, their own right. So there is no need to return it. And because of these reasons, people destroy their self-respect. There are some people who constantly borrow and make a good living, and sometimes tell others to buy and eat. These behaviors actually show the identity of very small people. These people have no sense of shame. These people who borrow are kind of shameless. However, we definitely need to stay away from these people. Because these people are very harmful to our society. These people do not earn money by working hard and running their own businesses and families. They borrow money from others' hard work and earnings to run their own families, which they never pay back. Therefore, we should always stay away from such shameless and self-respectless people.

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