Introvert Talks - A Quiet Christmas

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Welcome to Introvert Talks!

"Introvert Talks" is meant to be a new initiative or theme, where I myself as an introvert, just talk about reflections and thoughts about my life, or maybe share more personal stuff. :)

This is my weekly post under this "Introvert Talks" theme and let's see where it takes me and us.


First of all, Merry Christmas to whoever is reading this!

Secondly, why are you on Hive during the day of Christmas? Hahahaha.

For myself, I had a quiet Christmas all by myself, or rather, all to myself. On Christmas eve, the first half of the day was spent at work, and thereafter it was lunch followed by a session at the gym. Surprisingly the gym was more crowded (is everyone there to burn off their calories from feasting) than the usual. After exercising, I went off to chill at the pool. There wasn't much sun as dark clouds started to gather, as you could tell from the photo below. Nonetheless, still a nice view.

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On the actual day of Christmas, which is today, I woke up early despite planning to sleep in. I booked a massage session to give myself some time to rest and relax, and thereafter, headed to a casual restaurant for lunch. That's grilled fish with herbs, along with mashed potatoes and corn niblets as sides. Locals would surely know where this is from. It felt a little strange to be the only one dining alone in the restaurant while everyone else were either with their families (parents with children), or with big groups of friends. I am quite used to it but I am still human after all - and the difference is more greatly felt during festive periods like these.

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I then came across a small business selling pizza. I have been wanting to try the few times I walked past so today was the day. The slice was bigger than what I expected and it's actually quite delicious. Definitely will be back to try the other flavours.

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Ok, this is not meant to be a food review post... But how could I not get my favourite matcha latte to end off the day? I am pretty selective when it comes to matcha lattes and this one is consistently good, though it's not as affordable compared to others. But it's worth it!

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And now I am back home, sitting in front of my laptop typing this, while waiting for my laundry to be done. Hehe. And that's more or less my Christmas holiday. Feels like a typical Sunday actually.

Nothing fancy, just a quiet Christmas for me. And sometimes I wonder if it's scary to think that I could get used to it. I did enjoy my time, and the few activities I planned for myself, and I also had some good food and drinks, but at the same time, I wonder if this is unconventional for most people, who probably are spending time with their loved ones, holidaying in some touristy city, or partying at countdown parties. I guess to each his own.

I actually scrolled all the way back to see if I wrote something for Christmas last year and yes, I actually did! It's here. The title reads: Merry Christmas To Myself. Haha. I can only say history repeats.

So how was your Christmas? Was it a peaceful one or a busy one?

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Merry Christmas.

I had an enjoyable christmas which began with a cuddle with my guy, the best sort of present a girl could have, then he made breakfast for us which we ate outside with the birds and plants; it was quiet and so peaceful. We don't exchange gifts, but spoke about the year coming to an end, what we had done and achieved and what we would like to achieve in the coming year and then I went off to get ready to go out.

We had lunch and dinner with some of my family, not a large gathering but ten or so people who shared food preparation and eating together and many laughs over the day.

On the way home we decided on some movies to watch and after I had a bath and he a shower we settled in to watch. We weren't hungry so just had some tea and enjoyed a night cuddling on the couch watching two movies.

We both feel too much emphasis is put on material things at this time of the year so we focus on experiences, togetherness and to the enjoyment of life.

I think it's a little sad you spend christmas day alone and hope that this year is the last time that happens.

Becca 🌷

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Merry Christmas to you!

Happy to see that you have had an awesome Christmas with time spent with loved ones! And also did some reflections!

Don't worry about me - I am totally fine! I do spend time with family and friends on the weekends! :)

Thanks for dropping by!

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A lovely day my bro, Beast Christmas.

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Quiet is not exactly bad. Blessed Christmas to you bro
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Hehe true!

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Nice share
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Have a blessed Christmas! Seems like yours is actually a fun one!

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Hope you had a great one too! Yeah it's fun in my own style! ;)

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