It's a fair question, sure. I don't know why they should be ashamed for being curious. Of course, even if we know how they died, that's not really useful information. But humans being humans, it does satisfy our curiosity and gives some degree of closure, so I suppose it's useful in that regard.
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Yes, like I said in some of the other comments, I think it was totally out of line to shame people for being concerned.