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Very true. My addendum to your title is that what you choose to hold onto ends up defining you. I am at wit's end trying to explain this to family when they want to keep on holding to issues more than 2 decades old.
Yes, I completely agree with that! I'm sorry to hear about the family issues. That's sad.
It is normal for the big families we have. Only saving grace is that the elders seem to be ready to let things be as they grow older beyond 65-70. And younger generation is too busy surviving to worry about past, too many issues in present to resolve :) So over time I hope that things work themselves out. But so many missed opportunities thanks to living life like it is a soap drama. (to be honest I cannot say that I have not been guilty of the same from time to time)
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