THEY THOUGHT I WAS LAZYπ__MY STORY OF WRONG ASSUMPTION. (WEEK309)
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For this week, I will go with prompt 1.
A time someone made a wrong assumption about me? It happened last year.
I was working from home. I was always indoors, on my laptop, not going out like other women in my area. So my neighbor assumed I was lazy and jobless. She even told another neighbor "That girl just stays at home pressing phone, she does not want to hustle."
What she did not know was I was freelancing. I was designing, writing, staying up till 2am to meet deadlines. I was making money, but because my work was not a shop or office, she thought I was doing nothing.
It hurt me so much when I heard it. I felt angry and small. I wanted to go and explain everything to her, show her my laptop work. But I just kept quiet.
Later that month, her daughter needed a flyer for her school business. She had no choice but to come to me. She was shocked when I told her my price and showed her my previous jobs. That was when she realized I was actually working hard.
I did the flyer for her daughter for free. She apologized that day. She said "I thoought you weere just lazyy, I did not knoow."
That experrience tauught me somethingg. People will always assume without knowing facts. You cannot control their assumptions, but you can control your peace.
Now when people assume wrong about me, I don't rush to defend. I let my results speak. Timme alwayss reveeals the trutth.
Have yoou everr experiennced this kind of wronng assummption?
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That is very kind of you. Sometimes people judge us without knowing us but we shouldn't let our kindness fade away. We should always be kind to people and not expect anything in return. I like your personality and wise decisions. You have a kind heart and keep it like that.
Thank you for sharing.
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yeah ofc i will keep being good.
thanks for stopping by.β€οΈβπ©Ή i really appreciate.
Fine scripts, lifestyle and hearts, it happened to me also, i was a taxi driver, my vehicle was always giving me issues i fought in silence, but in the eyes of people i had a car, i needed a skill like yours plus improve my art skill but the stress the vehicle was giving did not allow me, i later made a decision to sale it guess what, without knowing the root of my decision people started making assumptions, but the truth is, i can't afford the time to explain for people, i just kept going.
you owe no one an explanation π―π€
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thank you πππ
It's a shame that people always want to judge us unfairly. I think the way you defended your honor was impeccable.
I'm glad you were able to learn a lesson from this bad experience. I really enjoyed reading your post. Thanks for sharing. Hugs
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exactly see. no time for unnecessary explanation.
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People sometimes, I think, like to think the worst of others, especially if for some reason, they are envious. Perhaps that might have been the case; envious of what she perceived as you not doing anything. Anyway, I am happy you were vindicated in the end. Nobody knows what it's like for any one person until they walk a mile in their shoes, and most times, they don't really want to do that.
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yeahh thank you sis πΈβ€οΈβπ©Ή.
I'm glad i didn't let my anger take over i handled it well.
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And I thought I was the only person working away on my desktop way past 2 AM in the morning.
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i do too π
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I understand that feeling.
And I don't think you owe her an explanation since she didn't make enquiry directly from you but went at your back to spread false allegations.
that's people for you
Exactly π― that's the right attitude π. Good riddance to bad rubbish. At the end, she was still the one who got helped from the presumed 'Lazy Girl' . Life rubbed the shame on her and vindicated the lazy girl.
This is interesting π€ π³ π
Thank you for sharing. Your result did not only speak but also vindicated you from the presumed lazy girl they nearly tagged you. What a world π π’
Cheers.
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yeah I'm glad i handled it well
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It's my pleasure. Enjoy the rest of your day.
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