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RE: Recurring dreams
Aw... you made my heart smile. Thanks for being so encouraging!
Hmmmm... know what? We can't lie. You say your face can't lie but, in all truth, we pick up people's nervous system responses and "meta" communication unconsciously and we always know when someone is lying. Or not being fully truthful. And this makes us all a bit nervous, afraid and uncomfortable of each other at times, I think.
What I'm busy learning to do is to express my emotions in a way that isn't scary for other people to deal with.
What we ideally should have been taught to do as kids.
I mean... it's fine to say to someone: when you did that it made me feel angry and I'd prefer it if you...
And anger is the big one, isn't it? That and grief.
Instead we're taught to lie to protect other people's discomfort, and them in return for us. Silly, innit?
But it's so much bad programming to rewrite. Both personally and to walk this way in our society. Scares the shit outta people, mostly.
We will fix it over time. I have every faith. Busy watching the explosion of this perspective online at the moment. It's everywhere now 👍 And growing!
So you're ahead of the curve. And I always come back when I find people who are alive and present and working life and their own progress. This is how I get to learn as well :) So thank you! ❤️
And so agree. The more I've dealt with my own unprocessed/unconscious stuff the less I've felt the need to react to other people's. Mostly it's okay to shrug it off and wait for things to become clear on their own, really. This is making it difficult for me to write at the moment, btw.
I'm in a place where I'm not sure I need to say much more anymore. For now.
Oh those flying dreams :D :D The best, right?!!
Sending love to you. Have a beautiful day in all of it and however it comes. And inevitably goes...
New thing I am trying is to how to let my emotions pass through me and giving them room inside to do so, rather than stuffing them deeper inside like I’ve always done in the past. I’ve been watching some interesting podcasts on YouTube that came as a recommendation from unexpected source 😍
Anger is sure a tough one, but I find guilt even more tricky, cause it isn’t as obvious as anger. Grief sure takes time… especially if we struggle to let go of what we lost.
It is silly, that’s true. The way society works is rather toxic in most aspects and for the bigger part of my life I rebelled against it all, while these days I try to make peace with it and only concentrate on me and my inner well being. Me, myself and I are the only people I have any control over and even with that I clearly struggle 😂
Where are you watching this explosion? I only ever use Hive to read and write these days. There are some rumblings here, but have not seen any explosions yet.
What’s making it difficult to write? Processing your inner world?
I’ve had an almost dead few months, while I had no energy for anything, but as I slowly regain my inner strength again, I feel the energy circulating again and the need to share again. Will see how long it lasts 😉
Lots of love to you too dear Nicky. Always a huge pleasure to chat to you 😘💙
!LADY
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