True forgiveness comes from the heart
Good day, amazing people of the Hive blockchain. Welcome back to my blog, another edition in the #ladiesofhive community. The topic of forgiveness is especially beneficial for those who are able to let go of past grudges. The invitation to reflect upon is: do we always have to forgive? Why forgive someone who doesn’t deserve forgiveness? Should we always forgive?
To forgive someone who wronged you is not always easy; it takes time to be able to forgive. I have gotten to understand one thing: if you don’t let go of who wronged you, it will keep hurting you. Of course, as a human, a lot of thoughts will be running through your mind: why will I forgive? Why should I always forgive and do on?
I know it is not easy to forgive, but we should forgive whoever that wrongdoer is. No matter how hard it may be to let go, we are not forgiving because we are weak or soft; we need to forgive because it is the best thing to do. The more we keep dwelling in the past, the more it will keep hurting us. If you don’t forgive, you will be stuck in the past, and you will find it hard to grow.
I know it is not easy, but I always try my best not to keep grudges. Whenever I am hurt, I find it hard to forgive, and if I should part ways with the person or the person's name is mentioned, it brings back memories I try to bury, and immediately my mood will change. Believe me, there is nothing as sweet as forgiving someone genuinely.
True forgiveness comes from the heart, and it is not always easy to say the words 'I forgive you. It is all in the past.' You can forgive someone, but you don’t forget. If you want to heal, you must forgive and forget the person that wronged you. True forgiveness comes with forgetting.
Of a truth, most people don’t deserve to be forgiven; the pain they cause us can’t be erased. Even when you try hard to forgive, you can’t because of how badly they have hurt us. In all, we need to find a way and forgive, not because we are weak. You forgive for us to have peace of mind.
Forgiveness is a journey; it takes time tolearn to let go even if you are hurt. When you forgive, don’t see yourself as a weak vessel; rather, you are a superhero.
Do we always have to forgive? Why forgive someone who doesn’t deserve forgiveness? Should we always forgive? Drop your thoughts.
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I agree that forgiveness is more for our own peace of mind than for the other person. Holding on to pain only keeps us trapped in the past.
I agree with you, forgiving is a path, learning to let go and leave the pain takes time, doing so does not show weakness but courage, thank you for sharing your experiences,
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Forgiveness is just like walking on a long road, that takes hours before you can get to your destination.but it's worth it because it bring to you inner peace,long waited blessings, sound mind and takes you far away from hell fire.because a person with an unforgivable spirit can never enter the kingdom of God.
Full forgiveness is realized when the offender is genuinely repentant of their actions. The ideal outcome is a friendship restored between the offender and the victim, a conditional trust re-established and perhaps damages compensated for. But human nature for what it is, most outcomes are far from ideal. We can only deal with what we have control of. Our response to it. How we come to terms to the hurt and pain and how long before we finally let it go. Carrying such a weight only continues to harms us physiologically but also spiritually, effecting those around me. I can only make the experience better me, rather than letting it embitter me.
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