Loh Contest #204 ~ This Kind Of Marriage.

If you check all my social media pages, you will see wedding photos, videos or anything relating to wedding. That’s not because I love wedding ceremony but to tell you that I’m a big fan of marriage. I really wish to be successful to the point that I will be very great but this will not stop me from loving or respecting my husband.
I know the husband is the head of the house but it does not mean it is centered around the male gender. I’ve read so many things online especially how some marriages fail and the things that happen in the marriages.

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Let’s get to the question asked in the Ladies of Hive contest.

*A husband told his wife that he wishes her to say “okay” and “yes” to whatever he says to avoid further discussions or arguments. What would you do if you were in her shoes? Would you agree and nod to everything even when it is against your will or feelings?
Please share your thoughts.”

Do you think this is normal because I don’t think so. Marriage is for two people and as we have always heard, two heads are better than one. I see no reason why a man should only want his opinion in the house. No man is an island and as a woman, we were created to support the opposite gender.

No matter how enduring a woman can be, a time will come when she may not be able to endure or hold this pain so there will be nothing to do than leave the marriage or maybe fight for her right. Also, any home that is like this will never be interesting.
I don’t ever pray to be in a situation like this but if I mistakenly find myself in this situation, I will surely fight for my right and if I don’t get what I want, leaving the marriage is the best solution.

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Also, remember the fact that I’m not a fan of divorce but there are just so many things that I cannot cope with.