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I do say something like, "It's not every time someone open up their situation to you that you should always drop advice."
Sometimes we need to put ourselves in the person's shoes and think of a lasting solution. I know of a guy who was the first child and a male son. He was struggling, and the funny part is that his siblings seem to be doing better than him.
After he told me about himself, what I did was point out his own errors in a kind manner and tell him how he can improve and find a job for him. Currently he follows me to church and is doing well. Though it might not be the best currently, it is better than where he was. Man is just in his 20s, and he looks like he's in his 40s.
Sometimes when we keep telling people things will be fine without trying to help them after opening up to us, they tend to withdraw and start fighting their battle alone, and as humans, we are not built to walk this world alone.
Amazing post. I enjoyed reading it.
Thatβs so true. When someone is open enough to tell us about some things they might be going through, it is left for us to either help them pass through that phase or show them a way that will help them get through.
Iβm glad you could help that man, Iβm very sure he will always be grateful to God for meeting a person like you.
To add to this, sometimes we donβt always have to say something when someone opens up to us if what we have to say is comparing them to others.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experience with me, Big Fash. π₯°
You have shed more insight on this and you are welcome.
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