RE: Sam's Hangout #73- “CHOOSING A PARTNER”

Knock knock! Who's there?
What's all these juiciness and noise about? 3K comments? That's crazily massive.
530 that I am seeing right now is already a headache
So you mean people make that much comments? Just vibing and connecting with each other? Wow this is my first time coming across such and this hangout

I am not sure how this is done but I guess I just have to answer the question here in the comments right?

So the qualities I look out for in a life partner? Well, there are tons of it but I will summarise it and try to fit it into these three things;

1. Values - I can't end up with someone whose values doesn't align with mine, one of us will end up being a shadow of ourselves and in most cases and in the recent society it's mostly the ladies that will be found in such situations, so settling for someone whose values don't align with mine will be me doing myself more harm than good.

2. Accountability, Transparency and Honesty - these three work hand in hand, one can't be done without the other. An honest person is a transparent person and a transparent person will always give account of himself and the things that he is dealing on. You can't be with someone and the person isn't being transparent with you about his life or his dealings, you will just assume he or she isn't an honest type and this will always lead to assumptions and could even make you jump into conclusions for things that could have been easily addressed and given account for.

3. Kindness and Generosity - Omor let's forget about a wealthy or stinging rich person, if he isn't the kind and generous type, you may likely still not feel the impact of his riches. And aside from the monetary aspect, choosing a kind person over wealth is 10× a flex for me. I would rather settle with someone that is kind and generous to an unkind rich human. I am not in any way saying I wanna choose a partner that is financially struggling. I am just saying that one who is a giver will always be a giver whether he has it or not at the moment and will always look for means to make things run smoothly.

This is my input and I hope this answers the above question.
It was a pleasure to drop by this fun-looking hangout.