RE: Sam’s Hangout #135 - “NAVIGATING CHEATING"

It's easier said than done, many might say that what's the big deal just forgive and let it go. But the truth is that forgiveness doesn't mean you'll ever forget that your partner cheated on you and in as much as you keep remembering what they did, each time they're far away from you, you won't have peace, as you'll find your thoughts keep drifting away to the imagination of 'what if he or she is out there cheating again?'.

These thoughts will ultimately meer the relationship is it wasn't meer from the exact time you discovered they're cheating and that because the trust has been broken, and like we all know, trust are like an egg or a glass, once broke, it can never be reinstated back to the way it was before. So why you can say I'm sorry, I'll become a better person, the truth is that your sorry can't heal they would your cheating/infidelity actions as caused on your partner.

Personally for me, cheating is a deal breaker and I don't think I'll ever continue in a relationship where my partner cheat on me, regardless of what their excuses may be, they have any opportunity to talk to me or say no to the temptation of cheating, but didn't. And given my experience with a cheating partner in the past, I would never put myself in a position where I'll have to go through the effect of cheating again.
So in a nutshell, If you cheat, that's the end of our relationship for me, and it's for the sake of my peace.

Abi what do you think about the subject matter @nkemakonam89 @marsdave @oluwadrey ?