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RE: Hive-Naija Weekend Engagement #69- “TRUST ISSUES”
Tell us if you think it is okay for your partner to have a best friend of the opposite gender
They are of two ways for me:
Number one, if they have both been together before I came into the picture, why not? I won't stop him from having the friendship continues. It's all depends on trust with each other. I believe if he had wanted to be with his girl friend (best friend), he wouldn't have approached me to marry him. So, I don't mind about that. Of course, I would let him know the communication should reduce and not like meeting or seeing often. Whatever they need to be discussing over should not go to the extreme.
Number two, if it happens when we are already married, that's something I wouldn't accept and allow. Am I not his best friend after we've gotten married? I'm his friend, love, wife and everything, so, there shouldn't be anything best friend from the opposite gender except for just casual friends.
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What of from church? Like church bestie. Will you allow? Even if you’re married. At least they met in church- you didn’t meet the person because you had a time you were working on sundays!
It should be church friend and not too close please 🤣 closeness might lead to something which most times, we can't control the circumstances- we are humans even though the trust is there. We only need to be careful. There's nothing wrong in having a friend from church but at the same time, caution is needed because devil sef wicked 🤣
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Ah! Which one is church bestie again oo. Bestie na bestie.
Which one is church bestie 😂 I cannot laugh abeg. Those ones are friends.
You see all those church besties na them worst pass
That's exactly what I said as well my sister. Which kind fake bestie be that one after we are married? Mtchewww
See, everybody should respect their boundaries o. Even me as a lady, once I know that a male friend if mine is married, I use my number 6 to give chance small small na. I will reduce my level of communication with that make friend because I don't want to destabilize his family.
Exactly 👍
This is on point. Once my male friend is married, it calls for me to limit my interactions with him except when I just needed some help or advice. Enjoy your marriage and leave me 🤣
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Well said, Princess. I don’t think I can handle this best friend thing even in a relationship. As long as you are my best friend, I should be your favorite person. Even if you met the person before me, it doesn’t matter.
Exactly. Your partner should be your best and favorite person. So, why choosing someone else to perform my role? Lol
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Even before marriage, I should be your your best friend. Why did you accept to date me in the first place. Please let's tell ourselves the truth, that thing is risky 😂
Now I agree with this. But funny how when a guy that’s good have a girl, the girl will become his best friend even though he has a best friend before, it wouldn’t just be the same especially if the best friend is a girl and same goes for a girl too
It’s just common sense