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RE: Sam's Hangout #73- “CHOOSING A PARTNER”
Our world is fast-changing, so one should be careful when looking out for a life partner. Gone are those days that people were looking for tall, dark, and handsome. I saw a post on Instagram a few minutes before I came online, and the only thing that kept ringing in my hand was that in choosing a life partner, one just needs wisdom and the help of God; we have a lot of monsters in human form roaming on the road.
Quality to look out for is
Fear of God, not people parading around claiming to be Christians or churchgoers. Someone that genuinely and sincerely follows God, someone that is yielded to the things of God. Because most times in marriage, because of the fear of God in them, they will not misbehave, and when they do, they quickly turn to God for repentance.
Communication—some people have goat ears and brains. Some people are bad when it comes to communication; some people hear and don't listen, so you need someone that can listen actively and express themselves effectively.
Someone that submits to authority—you will not understand this now until you get married. Don't get married to anyone that doesn't listen, respect, or submit to an authority. Marriage is unpredictable; when something happens and you need someone to help you talk to your spouse, you need this authority they listen to to help. Forget all that; we don't need a third party in our marriage. We can solve all our problems. Sometimes you need someone to help reset their brain.
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I agree with you o. There are lots of wolves in sheep clothings and sometimes even when you think you've studied them and know them like the back of your palms, it will shock you when you start seeing a totally different person after marriage.
The thing is that marriage brings out the best in people and also the worst in them. In marriage, everyone relaxes and brings out all their hidden trait.
It's very important to look beyond the physical appearance of someone if you really want to have a happy home. The focus should be on someone who loves God. Like one who really loves God and abides by his principles and commandent. That is the the bedrock of a happy home.
And I'm a living testimony 🥰❤️❤️
That's right, people think staying in a relationship for long helps them know the person better but that's not really it you get to know the person's true nature after marriage
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Umm these are really solid points I like it
Thank you 😊
Hmmm there are many wolves in sheep clothing the best we can do is to be sensitive in the spirit . Discern for yourself when it comes to choosing a life partner
Absolutely 💯
But we still look out for dark, tall and handsome too among the list of other more important qualities lol 😆
Sure na but other things comes first, what's the use of his dark, tall and handsome features without sense 😂
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I agree with you.
This age wey we dey soo all these looks, fine face, face card, big bumbum, big boobs and charm no longer dey enough.. it's deep character, wisdom, and spiritual grounding that truly matter. The fear of God isn’t just a churchy requirement, it’s what keeps a person accountable even when no one is watching. Communication and submission to godly authority? Underrated pillars. So many marriages crash not for lack of love, but lack of guidance and emotional maturity. This one na the real talk jare.
One big egg roll and chivita for you 😉
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Kaiii you sabi this thing well. You see that communication thing nai him be the koko sef. E dy prevent had i know and wetin you no want
Sure 😃
Hi @ozd I can see that you desire a genuine child of God(not just a church goer), someone with good communication skills and the someone that can submit to an authority.
These are great qualities. Some people aren't good with community and when it turns sour, they will start saying things like I thought you would have known. So effective communication is very important for both the man and the woman.
Being a genuine child of God makes the partner to live a decent life and this is what a every marriage needs: decency and good morals
Absolutely. Thank you
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