You are viewing a single comment's thread:
RE: Hive-Naija Weekend Engagement #70- βLOVE VS FINANCIAL SECURITY
Now make I chook my mouth for the matter properly properly becos dis matter is very important.
Will I marry a guy for love who is not financially stable?
My response is hallelujah praise the one who set me free ππ
If I hear say I marry that kind way selfπ.
The fact is marriage does not depend only on love as love is fleeting. When bills begin to surface in the marriage, love no go stay o.
There are many factors to consider before a marriage can be successfully contracted. One major factor is fiance. The guy does not have to so rich but as long as he has a stable income or sources if income, then we are good to go.
The Bible says that he that finds a wife finds a good thing. This tells me that I am a good thing and there is no way that I'll be with a guy and he would be financially miserable (except Dem dey follow am from village).
But if that guy is sound and hard-working, then I guarantee that he won't struggle financially as we would both seek out more sources of income and how to have a better life.
No woman wants to suffer and I am not going to pretend to be a good wife material and say that I'll marry such a guy. I have dated one like that in the past and trust me, it was not palatable at all. I had to call it quits.
This is my humble response.
@luchyl, @ozd, @rukkie and @princessbusayo.....come join the fun
This thing goes both ways, both the man and the lady should have something doing. I mean, marriage isn't children's play, love sweet, love blind but na bills dey open that eye.
No matter how two individuals love themselves, if bills are not constantly met, Omo, problem go dey o.
I won't advise anyone to marriage someone who isn't financially stable in the name of love.. Omo, una go see shege promaxπ€£ but both of u should be stable, nothing like man or woman here.
Abeg Bros chop knuckles π€π€π€
You be better man ππ
This kind sense coming from a man is wonderful. And you are very correct. The mam and womam must have stable source of income.
Are you married? Your wife go dey enjoy you because you know whats up πππ
Gbam! The elders are proud and happy with your response, Jesus has set me free so why should I suffer all in the name of love
I tire.
If I do that kind thing ehn, I'm sure that my ancestors will arise with koboko for me ππ
View more
πππππ
Make I screenshot this thing first.
Well said ma
Abeg go ahead make all the guys see am no cheap babe for market ππ
View more
Your own came from an experience, e choke! π
For real, he doesn't have to be very rich but the potential should be there. No be everything person go dey struggle for all the time to live better.
Abi o my sister.
Imagine struggling as a single lady then still struggling as a married woman. No o, abeg I jump and pass.
The guy should have something doing that gives him a stable income that we can work with and I'll add my own to it too.
View more
Yes oo women are supposed to be pampered my sister
No be small pampering o. Is that not why we were brought out from his ribs? ππ
Sisterhood is proud of you. A man who intends to marry should at least, have a stable source of income. No be to go carry person daughter come dey suffer am. α» gah o. π
No be small o gah o.
Rubbish and ingredients come join spicy ginger on top, mtchewww.
Shame self no dey catch some guys at all. Them go just carry their two left leg come dey disturb person daughter with zero account balance. Oag clear road
View more
This place is association of ladies marital affairs and commission affiliates. Make I just hold my toothpick and pass by jejely.
Who give you permission to pass by?
Oya talk your own now o. You never can tell, a girl might leave you for this same reason. So you better learn, no pass by oo
View more
Totally agree with you... like your mind is made up never to repeat past mistakes π
Yes ooo, my mind is very made up ππ
View more