Broken heart?

"The major value in life is not what you get. The major value in life is what you become" Jim Rohn

It's time to share my biggest experience in my life so far which I announce here. The intention is for people to learn from it.

Waves.

I was in Samar for almost 3 months before I went back to Angeles City Pampanga something huge happened. Me and my friends are having dinner (farewell party). I was talking to my friend about my plans in the future I was happy and excited to get back home to my family. I told him I'm praying that our Lord gives me more pain because I'm so used to it (getting comfortable being uncomfortable). When I got back to the office I received a discord message coming from my wife.

Wave 2.

She told me that she is pregnant with another man and I don't deserve her. I look down cover my face all I think of are my kids. Of course I cried men do cry it's not a myth 😂. My friend sat down beside me and he said can I hug you I said yes. The pain that I felt (how can I describe it) it's in the heart but my mind is just keep thinking about my kids. So two emotions pain in the heart then concern about my kids.

Wave 3.

I found out that this other guy was the guy before so they have been together for 8 years - 9years. I was so focus on getting my family have a better lives so all I do is sit on my PC and just work mostly 24/7 and focus on my investments. I've been hearing about it before and I just ignored it, I have no time for gossips (marites 😂).

Note: We are civil now I forgave her before I even got home.

Sunrise with waves.

As a father all I know is to provide for my family. We've been together for 23 years, I'm not blaming her for doing it this is just life as we know it (sometimes you win sometimes you fail). It's how you learn from the experience and be a stronger person!

GOOD NEWS!

The kids are fine they are old enough to understand what is happening. I always tell them that no matter what happens it's still their mom. Never ever put the anger in your heart just move on. Be sensitive when talking to other people you never know what they are dealing day by day. I'm stronger as ever I gained new knowledge from this experience. To the fathers out there keep pushing keep grinding for your family I salute you! To the single moms you can do it it's for your kids I salute you! To the single ladies I'm available 🤣.

3 years ago I lost my mom, 3 months ago I lost my wife and 3 weeks ago I lost my dog. I'm always grateful you may ask why? I'm breathing and today is my birthday I have my kids, close friends @LevelUpLifePH @djccdigital @ecoinstant @ph1102 @powerpaul @team-philippines @dbuzz RiceGroupPH and I have the HIVE community.

As always God bless you all!