Love is over rated now a way of Transaction

Who remembers this song "Love Don't Cost a Thing sang by Jennifer Lopez".

I will drop a few of the lyrics here to help drive my message home better please.
See below

"All that matters is
That you treat me right
Give me all the things I need
That money can't buy, yeah
… Think you gotta keep me iced? You don't
Think I'm gonna spend your cash? I won't
Even if you were broke, my love don't cost a thing
Think I wanna drive your Benz? I don't (ooh)
If I wanna floss, I got my own
Even if you were broke, my love don't cost a thing"

Everyone deserves to be treated right either a man or woman in a relationship it's not a one sided feeling. Love may not cost a thing but when one isn't treated right in a relationship there's problem and that ship will sink before you know it.
This isn't what is in play now we see men and women go into relationships with ulterior motives. You see young guys seeking to scam ladies online and faking to have feelings for the lady just to keep getting money from her. It's sad what people do these days in the name of love and how they don't care what this does to the other individual's mental health and reactions to the male gender.
I have seen ladies force themselves on guys that they don't love just for the money and most times they end up being beaten by the guys because in the first place there wasn't any love feeling it was just a transaction to them.
Someone told me when you see the man of your dreams you will know well news flash some men out there are just fine on the face but lazy to work and earn for themselves. There's a lot happening out there in the name of love but it just what can I get from this person and move on.
There's really just 5% of real love out there the rest are toxic.
Toxic relationship where only one person bear all the cost for running the ship.
I will share my sister's ordeal so we know the trend of men out there.
She met a fine guy and you know that introducing state where you are supposed to be honest to tell the lady that you don't have a job the guy tells her his a car seller, he sells cars and does small businesses.

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She was excited and asked for his address so she could visit the address never came, they fixed a date to meet on her account to show that she's a boss lady and can pay her bills. He didn't say no he agrees and allow her pay for their meal and all then he tells her his not working at the moment and that business isn't good so his home.

The keep talking and getting to know each other...
The next 2 weeks they are caught up in a web of love and then he asks her for a loan and that's how the asking started and it didn't bother my sister but she felt uncomfortable sending money constantly but she didn't stop sending at a point she even got him a phone.

https://pixabay.com/images/search/love/

When she told me I asked her what's her limit is with this guy because you can't be going out with someone that doesn't know your family and you don't know his and you keep spending like this for him. Well of course you know how we ladies get when we are in love and our sister isn't on any relationship💏. She told me to mind my business and that her guy will definitely get something doing they are looking for something together which was true she started asking friends to assist with work and all and she kept sending money to the guy, for them to see she has to send him money to make that happen. I asked her when they were close to a year this question.
When a baby is born they first few month they a fragile, then the start getting strong then the start crawling then starting and the walking all this happens in the space of a year to a child.. This your relationship will soon be one your guy hasn't been able to stand yet.. When will he stand and start talking serious talk with you? May the question got to her or our losing our brother made her coke to her senses but she stopped sending him money stop checking on him and she's trying to focus on herself and family.
This happened to my sister a lot is happening out there in the name of love people have done far more worse than my sister did but it's not supposed to be this way.
Love is indeed a beautiful feeling but people are abusing it and turning it into a means for living and transaction.
Everyone should be treated right and well.. In the end we are still humans

Sorry for the long post admin. I had to stop myself from going too emotional.
Kudos on keeping the community busy😍😍🥰🥰. This is my first post here😇